Thanks Lililbet! I like to think we're helping even when it seems impossible. I can drive to where Susan lives in 5 minutes... it blows me away that I can't do more to help find her.
Thanks for the info about Stephanie's case. I'll be reading up on her shortly.
I think you are helping, just by keeping this thread going. When people google Susan, they will find their way here. But it is very frustrating. Even with all we've been able to do for Stephanie, she's still missing and her POI boyfriend has left the area. But at least we know we've tried and we keep trying, as you are.
I followed Stephanie's case for the first few months and I'm ashamed to say that after awhile, when there was nothing to go on, I moved away from it to other cases.
Susan just has not have any movement on her case at all. Nothing. No news media, no vigils at the one year mark, no pleas for information, no searches, no help at all, from anyone. We just won't forget. There is a sadness about Susan's case because so little was done, so little was known, and no one appeared to be looking for her. It was like she disappeared one day and it was like "oh well", and then life went on without her and without a look backwards.
It's like we are the ones giving Susan a voice. We are the ones keeping Susan's existence alive. LE hasn't bothered to do anything to bring her home or to solve what happened to her or how her car got into Raley's parking lot that day. It's like everyone just forgot Susan. We didn't.
No worries about moving on from Stephanie's case. You can't be everywhere and there are a lot of cases needing help. I'm local and Stephanie is my daughter's age, so I just need to stay for the duration. And Stephanie has friends on the thread who need to know we haven't forgotten her.
Just the little bit of reading I was able to do here was heartbreaking. Poor Susan! I just don't understand how someone can disappear, leaving such a small personal footprint, and there is no one to speak for her except strangers on WS. I've come to the conclusion that some families of the missing have the inner strength and tenacity to bang the drum loudly and continuously for their loved one, and others just "don't have that card in their deck." Some people are pitbulls and some aren't. But if family can't show that they care, no wonder the public forgets. All we can do here on WS is to be the victim's voice, as you are doing for Susan. It can be very lonely and frustrating, but also satisfying too.
Hang in there!