That's what I don't understand either. The oldest boy is actually JI's. One would think that JI's son would be the one in the biggest danger of harm from DB.
My Mom's a psychiatric nurse practitioner who specializes in children. According to her, often times, non-parental caregivers become resentful when they "have to take care of somebody else's kid." As a step-mom myself, I don't agree with that but, hey, some people are :crazy:.
I can attest to that. I have my nephew. because his step mom resented him. moo :furious: