I beg to differ...I have not stripped DG's character whatsoever, not one little iota...there's no reason to and generally that's not my way of any person, no matter what they've done.
My whole premise in life is that ALL people be treated with dignity and respect, and I've never made that a secret.
I absolutely will not paint DG as a 'drug lord', murdering, pathetic human being publicly or otherwise, just because that is the opinion of the masses...I know nothing for sure about who he is or what he's done and will reserve judgement (if I even make one then...I am more likely to be compassionate for the futility of a life) about him once the trial is over.
I never said he followed his mom around to reach things down....I'm assuming she likely asked as many mothers do of their sons/daughters....or he simply offered. That's wonderful that your father-in-law is doing so well, my grandfather was the same, as was my grandmother.

Does your father-in-law have a grown son at home that could help? If not, then I would assume there is little choice but to do it on his own, as was my grandparents. If my grandparent's had a son at home capable and willing to do the work, you can bet that it would've been my grandfather helping my uncle and not the other way around. But, one never knows arrangements in families. You are also assuming that DG's parents are in good health, we don't know that as we don't know anything whatsoever about them other than they go to church, and perhaps camp.
His primary role may have been the farm, or it may have been another line of work. We have no idea and there's nothing to prove it one way or the other. Again, I'm sure this will come out in the trial.