I'm not snipping a word of your post, because it's worth reading again.
God bless you for all you've done for those babies.
ETA: And welcome. Pour yourself a cup of something and pull up a chair.
I knew I should not have signed up... I should have kept lurking
I am addicted to this story, it is just so so sad. I go to bed and get up to go to the bathroom and have to check my computer. I actually was going to be a good girl tonight and was not going to even start reading WS then my daughter (from Orlando) called to say she was being arrested... so much for staying off.
Thank you for the Welcome.