Consider yourself indulged! And I am very interested in hearing your knowledgeable views on this sordid mess. I don't feel like I have a good sense as to who did what, and when. I only feel like I can see when someone has moved on from something and "started living again" (something I personally could never do so quickly, if ever.) Off topic (not even involving murder)....but I am often amazed at how quickly some people can dissect a bad situation, find a way to deal with it and then move on and go about the business of their daily lives.
Example - my mother lost her only sibling -- her 42 year old sister (my Aunt)--to a freak heart attack. She and I still grieve over the loss 10 years later. The other day she opened up and told me how shocked she was that on the day my Aunt died, my grandmother (my Aunt's mom) went to bed at 9 pm (as usual) and slept 8 hours. Within 2 days, she was asking my Mom for rides to go shopping for interesting antiques. My mother (still grieving bitterly) was shocked at how quickly a person could get over losing a daughter (one she loved dearly and saw frequently). It really stumps me. My grandmother is a kind, loving woman. Were were stumped. And even embarrassed. Same for the 70 year old man next door who lost his wife (I know he adored her) yet 1 month later, he had the wife's stuff moved out and a new woman living at the house (that he didn't know before his wife died). All this leaves me perplexed. I have arranged that (God forbid) anything happen to my 6 year old, I will go with her soon thereafter - it's only the 2 of us (I adopted her overseas - no known parents) and I wouldn't even bother trying to "grapple" with her death and "move on" and there's no reason to. So people who can do this....they really intrigue me. I see this "over it" feeling coming from the Anthonys.
Ugh I'm so wordy. The lawyer's curse.