Cindy Over the Edge? Where are the A's?

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I believe they have "sealed her fate" with their lies. If they had not assisted her in telling all those lies and then lying themselves to back them up, she might have had to face the truth. KC believed her parents would get her out of this one too, but all that happened was she missed any opportunity to plead this case down and get out of jail in her lifetime. She could have said it was an accident and received maybe 15 years, then been out of jail in 7 1/2 with good time. NOW........between all her lies, and her parent's lies, she is DONE !! She will never see daylight again out of a jail house.

I can see that. We can all learn, if we can see it, that just going along with little Johnny whatever he says/does is not right. Our parents are supposed to guide us and set the example. I'll tell ya, my dad would of hauled my arse over to whoever's house he thought I stole that from, made me return it and apologize, humiliation (for him) and all. I swear to God that's true. I never wanted to hurt him so I was better than I could of been.
 
Well, when you have no means of income and no skills to go out to get a job with an income and you're used to living at home off the "rents" with all your fav foods and clean clothes and sheets what do you expect?

Plus, when you are found writing your newest squeeze's name and yours - Mrs. Anthony L. ; Casey L. ; Mrs. KC L. how would you expect to be perceived? Certainly not as a mature parental unit that is grown with much wisdom.
Uh huh. Agree.
 
Sometimes I read posts like yours and wonder if people think Casey was 15 years old.

She was 22, and like other young woman have done since the beginning of time, she had every right to leave the nest if she so chose.

Yes, she was 22 but she was trapped. Cindy had made sure of that. Granted KC could have had a REAL job, but what could she do and what would she have made? $6.00 an hour? She dropped out of school before graduation. How would she pay rent and support a small child? CA had made her an emotional invalid in my opinion and she did all she knew how to do. Live there and take the verbal abuse.

What she should have done was applied for assistance with the State of Florida for her and Caylee and moved out. They would have helped her with an assisted apartment, paid for her day care until she could complete school and they would have trained her for a job, but most young people with children don't even know things like that are available.
 
I think they wanted to use the media to find Caylee...but the media turned it into a interview about Casey....when confronted with question after question about KC's lies....what could they have said? They admitted KC lied.

I dont really buy that. I have watched many interviews and they handled Cindy with kid gloves. She could have turned those questions around but she didnt. They asked but did not badger. Cindy has a strong personality, she could have stuck to the agenda of pleading for Caylee's safe return and that never came.
 
Based on everything I have read about her, I don't believe that she had matured much beyond the age of 15. Don't think her "momma" CA really thought so either.

MOO
Quoting myself to point out that CA stated (under oath) that she herself, "tucked" KC and Caylee into bed the night of the 15th.

???
 
I watched it - My suggestion to anyone who believed her is to turn off the sound and watch just the action. The body language does not match any of what she is saying. It sounds rehearsed. Nothing is HER fault, she is playing the eternal victim role in it. Watch the finger pointing and all the hand gestures.

Yes, she is lying, but it is a practiced lie in my opinion.

She drags her stories out so much, going off track constantly, pretending to forget what she was saying. When things get heated with anyone and she is about to look like an idiot, or her lies are about to come out or DO come out, she then goes into how she hasn't eaten "since yesterday at noon" or whenever it was that particular day. Or she suddenly claims to be a "grieving grandmother" when since "day 1" she has insisted her grandaughter is alive.
She claims to have told police "the truth" about things when we know she, in fact, did not tell them those additional things from watching future LE interviews with Cindy where they tell her they heard her lying on TV, giving reporters false information.

Like when she told reporters LE never came back for Casey's stuff that Cindy offered them. When the truth was that she promised them she would bring it and she never did! She can say whatever she wants on this video but we know the truth!! The same thing with the reciepts she is discussing!! She is a LIAR, how can anyone even believe this video?! LE asked ask her to stop lying on TV, that it's not productive.. we saw THAT video too.

When someone does something that Cindy does not like, that goes against what she obviously wanted, she attacks them PUBLICLY, on TV! She did it to LE, giving specific names of LE officers, she did it to Larry G, to Kathi B, Tim Miller, LP, Nancy Grace. She tears people down by slandering them so that she looks like the better person. Everyone but her and her precious Casey lies and makes up stories. But she isn't good at it. at all! She chooses people that have good reputations (well, I guess other than Larry), she goes after good people, says stuff that is just unbelieveable. & that makes her so much easier to see through, IMO.

She is good, I suppose, if you are not prepared for this type of person because they are so good at altering others perceptions (feeding people the koolaid!). But if you have known someone like her before, you see it right away... you can't miss it, You can almost smell her coming! I especially like in this video where she says "Well, I have never lied to the police so I'm not worried" when we know now (FOR A FACT!) she is looking for immunity and if she gets it she will re-interview with LE and speak truthfully this time... or so says her lawyer.

I truly do hope she gets help because there IS help out there for this. She can get well and lead a productive and happy life.
 
If you have ANY evidence of Cindy searching ANYWHERE then please give me a link to it, so I can change it from truth to opinion.

Read up to post #431 TURBOTHINK. You're replying to the wrong post, but my quote.
 
Sometimes I read posts like yours and wonder if people think Casey was 15 years old.

She was 22, and like other young woman have done since the beginning of time, she had every right to leave the nest if she so chose.

They treated her like a 15 year old if you ask me. No accountability what so ever. She may have been 22 but she was still at home under their roof, stealing and lying. I think there are valid points on both sides of this arguement.
 
Oh and, by the way, my mom is a softie but as honest as the day is long and lovely. She had a tough childhood - no dad and hardworking immigrant mom. I tell her she was the original latch key kid. I love her and appreciate her so much more now than I had the capacity to when I was twenty. Is this thread about me? I'll stop - ha.
 
Yes, she was 22 but she was trapped. Cindy had made sure of that. Granted KC could have had a REAL job, but what could she do and what would she have made? $6.00 an hour? She dropped out of school before graduation. How would she pay rent and support a small child? CA had made her an emotional invalid in my opinion and she did all she knew how to do. Live there and take the verbal abuse.

What she should have done was applied for assistance with the State of Florida for her and Caylee and moved out. They would have helped her with an assisted apartment, paid for her day care until she could complete school and they would have trained her for a job, but most young people with children don't even know things like that are available.

It's not that plain and simple. I worked for an agency and know the ins and outs of the programs available. They don't just give all this stuff to you.

Anyway, she did apply for assistance. I fully think if she had a way out of the house she would have taken it.
 
Based on everything I have read about her, I don't believe that she had matured much beyond the age of 15. Don't think her "momma" CA really thought so either.

MOO

I have a suspicion in the back of my mind that something really traumatic happened to KC about 15 or 16. It appears that everything in her life changed after a certain point and she seemed to quit maturing beyond that point.

I don't know if it was what she told about GA abusing her and/or about Lee coming into her bedroom, but something in my mind happened which stopped all maturing. I believe all the Anthonys KNOW what it is too, and I hold them responsible for not getting her help at the time.
 
If you have ANY evidence of Cindy searching ANYWHERE then please give me a link to it, so I can change it from truth to opinion.

It was never reported that Cindy physically searched. It's also never been reported that she didn't physically search either.
 
Based on everything I have read about her, I don't believe that she had matured much beyond the age of 15. Don't think her "momma" CA really thought so either.

MOO

ITA. It's how they keep ya with them.

ETA- to clarify-

Moms like the type of woman I believe Cindy to be I mean. I think Cindy lives for her family and needs to have people "need her". So she keeps them dependent on her
 
I have a suspicion in the back of my mind that something really traumatic happened to KC about 15 or 16. It appears that everything in her life changed after a certain point and she seemed to quit maturing beyond that point.

I don't know if it was what she told about GA abusing her and/or about Lee coming into her bedroom, but something in my mind happened which stopped all maturing. I believe all the Anthonys KNOW what it is too, and I hold them responsible for not getting her help at the time.

In the back of my mind, I thought something happened after the BIRTH. Jesse G stated many times that Casey changed and so they broke up and then they got back together and she was not the same Casey. There is NOTHING or NO ONE from high school or teachers that had anything bad to say about Casey. She was actually getting good grades until her preganancy, IIRC.
Could a chemical imbalance started with the preganancy and just gotten worse?
 
I have a suspicion in the back of my mind that something really traumatic happened to KC about 15 or 16. It appears that everything in her life changed after a certain point and she seemed to quit maturing beyond that point.

I don't know if it was what she told about GA abusing her and/or about Lee coming into her bedroom, but something in my mind happened which stopped all maturing. I believe all the Anthonys KNOW what it is too, and I hold them responsible for not getting her help at the time.

I'm not so sure that anything happened to her, but it is possible. I have a friend who is now 42 who still hasn't grown up. She had a child when she was 18, lived from home to home and job to job, everyone tried to help her, confront her on her actions, etc. Her parents threw her out, took her back, helped find her a job, took care of the baby for awhile, and then pretty much just accept that she wasnt ever going to grow up. She isnt a bad person and has a huge heart. I think that she just literally doesn't want to grow up and be settled down to anything.
 
I have a suspicion in the back of my mind that something really traumatic happened to KC about 15 or 16. It appears that everything in her life changed after a certain point and she seemed to quit maturing beyond that point.

I don't know if it was what she told about GA abusing her and/or about Lee coming into her bedroom, but something in my mind happened which stopped all maturing. I believe all the Anthonys KNOW what it is too, and I hold them responsible for not getting her help at the time.
ITA but I think the "event" happened closer to 18 - 19. I will go further to say that I think that this is what is going to be her defense! Remember we have heard more than once that "once this "secret" comes out - its going to shock the world!" Won't shock me as I pegged it from early on - and it came from my DH and he's still sticking to his guns about how it will all play out.
 
Yes, she was 22 but she was trapped. Cindy had made sure of that. Granted KC could have had a REAL job, but what could she do and what would she have made? $6.00 an hour? She dropped out of school before graduation. How would she pay rent and support a small child? CA had made her an emotional invalid in my opinion and she did all she knew how to do. Live there and take the verbal abuse.

What she should have done was applied for assistance with the State of Florida for her and Caylee and moved out. They would have helped her with an assisted apartment, paid for her day care until she could complete school and they would have trained her for a job, but most young people with children don't even know things like that are available.

Oh please. This is a reason to murder an innocent child?????

Casey had every opportunity to agree to giving Caylee over temp or permanent custody to someone other than CA, CA has no say. Don't tell me Casey was stuck. Yes a real job might have worked for starters. People make positive changes in their lives everyday, who are in far worse circumstances than Casey. If you don't believe that, well I'm sorry for you because I know it's true.
 
Yes, she was 22 but she was trapped. Cindy had made sure of that.:behindbar:behindbar Granted KC could have had a REAL job, but what could she do and what would she have made? $6.00 an hour? She dropped out of school before graduation. How would she pay rent and support a small child? CA had made her an emotional invalid in my opinion and she did all she knew how to do. Live there and take the verbal abuse.

What she should have done was applied for assistance with the State of Florida for her and Caylee and moved out. They would have helped her with an assisted apartment, paid for her day care until she could complete school and they would have trained her for a job, but most young people with children don't even know things like that are available.
She was already behing Bigger Bars than she is now.. BTW..Some great insights for those interested on the Phych Thread from Debs & Kiki the Parrot, in understanding the Narcisstic Parents effects on children....://www.websleuths.com/forums/showthread.php?t=76453&page=18t
 
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