[FONT="]I know you're right about staying off social media but in this day and age it's a necessary evil. You find info you might not otherwise get, and we did. When it got so hard after the first day and a half, I began to monitor for that info to keep them unaware of the very hurtful comments. For the most part I just tried to stay silent and read but with the outcome now known, it's become especially hard. We all know the media's in trouble for false reports but that's quickly forgotten by posters looking for excuses to be hateful. They're usually the same people that troll to be ignorant no matter what it is. A simple question isn't near as bad as the unnecessary nasty comments and judgments, which BTW, are so misguided and wrong. I hope you can see the huge difference between the two. I couldn't say things like some do to my very worst enemy and know most that do only do so because they're hidden behind a computer monitor. They critique parenting yet it's obvious they're lacking themselves. Most good parent's teach their children when young, if you haven't something good to say, keep your mouths shut. I should've just passed them by as I have for the most part but it's incredibly painful so although rare, opened my mouth. My son is married to his aunt and she's not my daughter in law, she's my daughter. Likewise my grand's are his cousins and everyone is already hurting so much. I'm just a lion that will always protect my cub's. Hopefully you understand a little better about where we're coming from.[/FONT]
[FONT="]In any case I'm so grateful for those that continue to state their condolences and prayers. It's wonderful to know not all out there are heartless and just plain evil.[/FONT]