I appreciate your input because you’ve lived through it with your sister. I’m sorry you had to deal with that. I’m not really blaming her family for the pathetic beast she is at this point in her life. That said, there had to be some enabling/covering going on earlier in her life. She didn’t just wake up as a murderer that day. Her earlier criminal acts and iffy employment history tell us she’s been a less than upstanding citizen for a while now. Whether they understood how harmful it would be is another story. They know now what she’s capable of and some are still defending her. IMO if she had been shut down often and earlier by those who supposedly love her, Gannon’s family would still have their beloved son. I hope she never breathes free air again.
Gannon...
Thank you!...you jogged my memory.
My sister who took the brunt of our sister’s malice, and I took over the care of our mother, and we had lengthy discussions.
We both noted that most friendships my sister maintained were actually thru our brother in law/ her husband. Many of these were broken thru her actions... or maintained because people really liked him.
So I suspect the same applied w/ Letecia, once people realized how nasty she could be, they backed off as quickly as possible.
so, once again, I am not defending Letecia’s family or friends, my experiences really opened my eyes, and enabled me to see clearly...
When Letecia realized someone was “onto” her, she also could get extremely vindictive. JMHO, and that fear of retribution may have kept her family or friends under her control.
So I believe she probably was held accountable by some, but unless she broke the law, she could just leave a trail of emotional turmoil behind her...
the military moves were also an advantage, because she would be able to move on...eventually her reputation would get out, but she was the spouse, not the service member...
She WAS held responsible in several instances, ie the Alaska incident, but Al paid more for that. The lawsuit in SC failed, so to a degree that should have been a deterrent...
I think what I conclude is that there are lots of Letecias out there, most will never murder, but they will create chaos, and emotional anguish...
the best deterrent is to keep them away from the people you care about, and if you have to be around them, watch them, document them, and stay off their radar, lest they suck you into their “game”...
I am a peaceful, easy going person, the battle I waged w/ my sister took a tremendous toll on my mental sanity, as well as my physical health...
I will never allow her to engage me again,I won the game and the prize(my mother’s wellbeing, in her last years of life)
IMHO, Landon has been in a battle w/ Letecia, w/o even knowing it, she lost the last round...but the determination we saw in her, is the same as mine, when you realize the full extent of evil you are dealing w/ you
DEAL WITH IT...
When they know they can’t beat YOU, they attack those you care about, that is what I would like us all to remember...
be careful! Letecia may be an extreme version, but she is not as rare as we would hope she is, some are smarter and do get away w/ it...JMHO, my personal soapbox