A child's bedroom.
Where he should have felt and been the safest.
But, it's actually pretty common that many children don't feel safe.
My students often don't have a bedroom. I've got several students who live in 400 sf with 7 other people (or more - 7 is the average for this group of what we call "very disadvantaged" students.
I know fellow instructors whose kids do not have their own rooms (teachers don't get paid a lot, rent is really high here) and some who do not create a safe environment for their children (I've witnessed it).
The notion that each child has their own room and safe space is rather new (I knew lots of kids growing up who slept in a room with others). I know lots of kids who don't feel comfortable around their own siblings (it's a really common complaint, actually - not like it's assault, but noise complains, insults, petty thefts, punches that result in bruises or worse - all very common among siblings who share rooms). The stress that families endure trying to "provide" all the rooms needed for 2-4 kids simply adds to the stress and results in family breakdowns.
IMO. That comfortable middle class lifestyle is harder and harder to achieve. Some don't feel safe in their own homes.
I believe that AS and LH certainly wanted safety for Gannon. But sometimes we have to let our children know that even home might not be safe from Stranger Danger (if only Gannon had used his phone to call his mom or dad on his last day...or the day before, or the time that the abuse began, because I don't think it had just started the day of his "disappearance."
But I do love that you hold this value,
@Megnut. And I preach to whoever will listen (in my private, not work life) that people ought not to have children if they can't handle the emotional stress of one (and we never know what we're going to get, that's for sure - some kids are more difficult than others).
IMO.