BRRI
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Yeah. The same thing happened with CW. People contorted from the beginning in order to find a way to blame her for her own death. But as I stated then, these murders are never about the behaviors of the victim really. They're always about the character of the perp. Because normal people don't kill because of custody issues or because they're having an affair or because their ex is dating someone new. They do it because there's something wrong with them.
That being said, it's pretty normal for us to discuss and contemplate the "trigger" for his murderous act. There's always something. Whether it's loss of control of the person, a desire to punish them, to be free, etc.
Yes. I think it’s important to realize that I’m sure 95% of people here, at minimum, aren’t blaming her, or her family, or her daughter or anyone but him and his possible accomplice. But discussing motive is realistic. It’s not victim blaming. It’s being discussed from his POV. His disturbed, convoluted, sick, POV.