good questions, i would add....where was she supposed to be for Thanksgiving and why didnt that person/persons raise a red flag earlier?
That is a good point. Kelsey told her mother she had plans with PF for Thanksgiving (reported- correct me if I am wrong). She may not have been telling the truth to her mother though since her relationship with the father of her child was probably not as rosy as she portrayed.
Kelsey was baking for Thanksgiving dinner, it seems. Nobody in her family was expecting her.
So what could have been the plans that day?
1) Kelsey was going to stay home alone on Thanksgiving.
2) Kelsey was going to spend time with her "fiancé" on Thanksgiving. Based on a long standing American tradition, this would likely be with the fiancé's family rather than a dinner alone.
3) Kelsey was going to spend time with others on Thanksgiving.
4) can't think of other options.
Fact: she spent Thanksgiving dinner with no one, no one saw her at any Thanksgiving dinner. In cases 2 and 3, there would be immediate concern by a number of people if she didn't show up.
So at the end of the day-
Option 1) if Kelsey was going to spend Thanksgiving alone, no one would be alarmed if she disappeared that day.
Option 2) the fiancé's family would be alarmed to find out that Kelsey blew them off.
Option 3) in 99.9% of cases (+/- 0.1%), if she was invited to Thanksgiving dinner with acquaintances, there would be follow up as to why she didn't show up.
So I discount Option 3 as a possibility. Option 1 is a possibility as it appears to me that her relationship with PF was not as portrayed.
What is interesting is Option 2. If there was a family waiting for someone for Thanksgiving dinner and they never showed...and went missing for weeks...what goes through their mind? Does this become a family secret? Do they talk about it between themselves? Business as usual? Whispers? A collective decision not to talk about it?