These thoughts and the questions asked in this post and a few of the following are in perfect line with where I have been since I started following this seriously. At the end of the day, after all that has been said and done, I don't think we know much about anything going on. I've read numerous posts here and comments elsewhere that were written with the basic premise that a crime was committed by a certain person. I have to say, I'm just not there yet. Only because, I don't believe I know anything that matters about this entire thing. So much being said by LE and the family these last couple of days completely contradicts much of what they said when all of this started. This case, the people involved, the information, so many things just don't seem to line up.
If the relationship between KB and PF is what it seems to be and if the family dynamic, both sides included, is what it seems to be, I have to admit, I understand why things feel like they do to so many people. If something happened to me one day, if I vanished, it would be awhile before anyone noticed. I keep to myself. I don't have coworkers. I rarely speak to my parents. My wife and son would wonder but, this is assuming I was in a similar situation as this one. Once my parents did realize I was missing, they are the type to withhold information about me and my life because positive public perception matters more to them than anything. They would never openly tell anyone my wife and I had a falling out or that we didn't get along most of the time.(I adore my wife. I'm simply trying to make a point.) They would never open up about things that happened in my past, things that might tarnish their precious reputation. I believe there are many people that are similar these days. I grew up in a family that would do or say just about anything to ensure family secrets stayed in the family. We always made sure the outside appearance was perfect despite what might have been happening behind closed doors. I can't help but feel like some of this may be similar. I am trying to stay objective with this for now, I want to look at it from a nuetral position until I know that's not possible. In doing so, I have to ask the question, is there any chance that KB and/or her mother and family had some past or present issues that caused difficulty? Is there something about her recent past or present that caused others to be concerned about her or the childs welfare? These types of things are what some folks tend to hold onto, out of fear of what others will think. It's all very confusing. I can't help but feel like certain folks in the middle of all this have made a choice to keep a lot of information in the family.