Dude! This is so so sad. I wish she’d left him after the Dec 8th strangling incident. I’m aware of all the messy dynamics in an abusive relationship. I know she may have been too scared to leave him. Or kept hoping he’d change. Likely blaming herself for his horrid behavior. I feel so awful for her family. The families desperately want to help their abused loved one, but often can’t. This is all so senseless. Bless them. Prayers and some form of peace for her family and friends. jmo