Random thoughts about how SW praised CW for being there when (and BECAUSE?) she was diagnosed with health issues and her divorce:
1. I would imagine that 'health issues' tidbit is something he NEVER let her live down or forget. Like... "I was the one who was there for you when everyone else turned away" (or something equally grotesque)
2. I would also imagine that he would remind her of her previous failed marriage. Like... "well, you blew it before" or "look how stupid you were" or "look what a loser he was - luckily you found ME!".
I would imagine he'd do both frequently and especially when his ego was feeling threatened in any way.
Narcs like to ensure their partners/victims are WELL aware of their short comings and how they're so much 'better off' now with the Narc in their life. They want their victims dependent on them. They also seem to project a lot. If he told his 'lover' that she was emotionally abusive I would bet $$ that he was the actual abusive one.
I would also NOT be surprised if he was receiving testosterone replacement therapy.
JMO. MOOooo
1. I would imagine that 'health issues' tidbit is something he NEVER let her live down or forget. Like... "I was the one who was there for you when everyone else turned away" (or something equally grotesque)
2. I would also imagine that he would remind her of her previous failed marriage. Like... "well, you blew it before" or "look how stupid you were" or "look what a loser he was - luckily you found ME!".
I would imagine he'd do both frequently and especially when his ego was feeling threatened in any way.
Narcs like to ensure their partners/victims are WELL aware of their short comings and how they're so much 'better off' now with the Narc in their life. They want their victims dependent on them. They also seem to project a lot. If he told his 'lover' that she was emotionally abusive I would bet $$ that he was the actual abusive one.
I would also NOT be surprised if he was receiving testosterone replacement therapy.
JMO. MOOooo