From all accounts I have seen and even SW and her parents he was a good father. Jmo if anything he was referred to as the calm one by SW. the children were cared for by him regularly . She stated she was the fiery one and him the calm one. Interested to see what fact or evidence made you come to this conclusion ?I think I get it now...he was "stuck" with little kids, while she went off on "vacation". They were fussy, possibly cranky, after he had been having such a great time single, he just got a bit out of control...and of course, it was ALL HER FAULT! So, the anger built up, and he let go when she got home on her.