flourish
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We are speculating of course.
Video of him after wife and girls are missing (or video of him after having to kill his wife and unborn child)
vs
Normal everyday things for show
Kind of a big difference in what we should be/are observing.
Since we have known each other a long time... I feel like you would see those interviews as highly disturbing. Am I missing something?
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I'm as surprised as you that I'm not in the majority here. It's strange for me, but also informative about how minorities on other cases may have perceived things.
I'm withholding judgement about his possibly killing the girls, because at this point, I have reasonable doubt on that. Additional evidence like Chris sized hand bruising or his DNA in significant amounts under nails, etc., will be incredibly likely to influence my thoughts and get me off the fence. I'm just not there yet.
I keep remembering how critical people were of me when my child was fatally injured. Before it became public knowledge that his father had injured him, my every expression was analyzed and no matter what, I was considered "wrong." If I was crying, I was "hysterical," if I wasn't, I was "cold." If I dared smile, well then I was clearly a monster. I was told I was "rather stoic" at his funeral. In short, I know what it's like to be in an awful position and be judged for every breath, every muscle movement, and I'm not keen on assuming the worst of him based on smiling in an interview.
Like I've mentioned before, my father is socially awkward, and laughs and smiles nervously whenever he is nervous, anxious, uncomfortable, unsure, etc.
I'll let the evidence tell me, and I'm fine with analyzing all the information available, including his interviews. However, there seems to be a double standard where, if one looks at him and finds all monster, and looks at SW and finds all perfection, then it's fine to use photos and videos to draw those conclusions, but when someone looks at those same photos and videos and comes to a different conclusion, well then they're victim blaming, disparaging, and just plain "wrong."
That's just where I am coming from at this point. I'd say more, but I've had enough tomatoes baths this week lol.
As always, my opinion is subject to change; and I have working theories which have him killing everyone, so I'm not stuck to one theory, I just still have reasonable doubt, subject to change with additional information.