Not necessarily if you listen to the end imo . The video almost like all I have seen is sad. Imo. I guess that’s why I just want to know where everything changed and what happened to cause it. Even the affair. He doesn’t seem like a womanizer. Heck SW said he had no game. I just am trying to understand where it began to unravel for both of them. Was she disappointed not supported? Was it money? Did he feel not appreciated?
Defiantly a huge accomplishment going from how he looked in the video to how he looks mowing the lawn.
Wonder how he's going to be looking next time we see him in court.![]()
IMO I don't think he ever knew he had any game. He hadn't been in many if any serious relationships in the past according to a VI post. He was the quieter type. Didn't stand out. Agreeable. Then SW comes along with her beautiful outgoing smile and "bossy" sparkly personality and dazzles him.
Fast forward a ways and throw in a move, Thrive, new circles... and all of the sudden he's getting noticed. Women at work might have flirted with him or complimented him. IMO in certain environments, married men are seen as a huge challenge. He still wouldn't have had to have any game at all, and all of the sudden he's the one in the center getting the attention. Grinning with his new muscles and the clothes his wife bought him and showed him how to look good in and hang in big closets.
Oh yes. That pregnant wife at home. And the 2 very small children. Soon to be 3, with debt and a mortgage and potential child support and all of those adult baggage issues. That's big boy stuff. The affair is fun. Real life isn't fun anymore.
So they had to go. And they did. But he wasn't bright or savvy enough to figure out how to master any kind of a sensible coverup, and thankfully fate intervened with a late plane and an intuitive best friend.
All my speculation and JMO ONLY!