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Lemak's friends and husband sure didn't agree with the defense's theory that she was showing signs she was capable of harming her children. They all made that abundantly clear in their testimony at trial. The jury concluded Lemak was a bitter, controlling, manipulative woman who wanted to punish the children's father for dating again. I believe it very possible the same motive happened in this case. JMO
Lemak is no different than FA killers Chris Coleman or Chris Vaughn just to name two. Coleman murdered his wife because his wealthy employer didn't believe in divorce and he didn't want to get fired. Vaughn murdered his family because he wanted to move to Canada and live off the grid. None of these killers meet the definition of insane. They knew it was wrong.
Lemak had medication for depression as do millions of Americans who don't decide to kill their children. Her friends testified at trial:
Lemak's close friend Tammy Bottigliero said she noticed how distant Marilyn was and sought to cheer her up by offering a quick trip to a restaurant or shopping. Lemak declined.
"Then I said, `Do you want me to take the kids?'" Bottigliero told a DuPage County jury Thursday. This time, Lemak's answer was emphatic and curt. "She said, `No!' ... It was the last time I saw her."
That brief exchange--just hours before Lemak drugged and suffocated her three children--haunts Bottigliero. "It's something that I still remember to this day," she testified on the third day of Lemak's trial.
The recollections and regrets of Bottigliero and others in Lemak's inner circle filled the courtroom.
Testimony from women who Lemak saw daily suggested there were clues her life was coming undone before the killings, but nothing to indicate she would take the lives of Emily and her brothers, Nicholas, 7, and Thomas, 3, on March 4, 1999.
Lemak's friends saw anguish before killings
But these two cases are not very similar.
But there was also testimony that Lemak appeared depressed and upset in the days before her children's deaths.
Lemark told her friend she was WORRIED SHE MIGHT HARM HER CHILDREN.
Another friend called by prosecutors, Karen Marposon, said Lemak told her that night that she had once revealed to her husband that "she was afraid she might hurt the kids."
Lemark was seeking help for stress from raising the children:
The usually polished woman--a sort of queen bee among her friends--admitted to them for the first time that she'd sought psychiatric help for the stress of raising the children.
Also:
On March 3, 1999 -- the day before Lemak is accused of drugging and suffocating her children in their Naperville home -- Hahn-Baiyor said she ran into her as the two volunteered at their children's school. Lemak was in tears.
"She was visibly upset, crying (and) shaking," Hahn-Baiyor said. "I asked her what was wrong, and she said she saw Dave's girlfriend's car parked outside his rental house."
Lemak's friends saw anguish before killings - Chicago Tribune
www.chicagotribune.com/news/ct-xpm-2001-11-30-0111300205-story.html