@PommyMommy
This is the part from the video you kindly posted that I thought was contradictory. I see now that because of this bad relationship she took something good from it:
" She says she was in a place for a long time where she was very insecure, didn't feel good about herself, wasn't happy,
was in a bad relationship and went through a really awful divorce. She lost her confidence and had to start over financially. Everything that she had doubted before came flooding back. Her boss at the time took her under her wing and helped her regain her confidence. In short, she went through a
long struggle with her ex,
but credits him for making her a better person. She says she always sees the good in the bad and promises her viewers that if you dig deep enough into your struggle, you'll see the good and the positive in it."
This does make me wonder though about that relationship and whether it had any lasting effect on her.