She does say she made it clear she had no intention of hanging out with him when he would have his kids during his 50% post divorce. I do not fault her for that at all, but I can see how he came to see they were a liability. She may have also (completely innocently) said that she had seen herself with someone who did not have a prior family. Again, I would not fault her at all for this. I am beginning to think it was less financial for him and more about freedom, pursuit of NK (his new toy), and the fact that the kids were far more attached to their mother than they were to him. MOO.