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(Discussion of Exhibit 4)
SA Grusing turned to communications between Suzanne and her lover, “Fred.” Barry was shown the photo of Suzanne dated April 14,2020 and asked if he thought she looked high. He said, “Yeah.” SA Grusing clarified, “She looks intoxicated to you?” Barry stated, “Yes. Do you mind if I read?”
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Barry asked, “Is this him or her?” Agents explained the messages and photos were Suzanne’s sides of the texting to her lover. After reading a few pages, Barry said, “Yeah, she looks intoxicated on every picture I’ve seen so far.”
SA Grusing pointed to a photo of Suzanne wearing a red shirt on April18, 2020 and asked, “That one?” Barry said, “Yep.”
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After continuing to read through the texts, Barry said, “She’s sayin’ she’s wearin’?” He was referencing the 04/21/2020 photo of Suzanne wearing a yellow and white shirt with her text, “Thanks baby. I wear it for you.”
Barry stopped reading, sat down and Agents asked if he had thoughts. He said, “That’s pretty hurtful.”
As to the cameras in the house:
SA Harris asked if Barry knew what the fight was about and he said, “She was accusing me of having an affair and she accused me of having cameras in the house, watching her every move.”
When SA Grusing asked if Barry had functioning game cameras, he said, “I had game cameras, I think all of them were in the safe, they took ’em all. I, the game cameras I had outside, sometimes I put ’em by the drive just to see if somebody’s coming in and out when I’m gone. But most of the time I’m trying to get a picture of a deer, an elk or a bear. But, I had no cameras in the house. I’ve never used a camera in the house and she was just absolutely sure that I had cameras in the house.”
Barry said he monitored the cameras with a “little SD card” that he could put into a computer. He added, “Yeah, and, urn, even the outside cameras, she thought that, ‘Oh you’re watchin’, or your girlfriend is watchin’ you on the outside cameras.’ I said, ‘Honey, the outside cameras don’t even work.’ And, but she was just certain that if like, I was outside with her and doing something in the yard, she would say, ‘I know she’s watchin’ you.’ Just stupid stuff, and I’m like, that’s why these, the only reason that these fights happen is because she’s accusin’ me. And I never understood them until now; she’s accusing me because she wants to justify her relationship.”
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SA Grusing interjected to point to the “Knew I was looking at phone in bonus” line from Suzanne’s grievance list and asked Barry about that. He stated, “She thought I had cameras in the deer eyes of my mounts. She thought there were cameras in there, and I threatened to rip ’em out and prove it. I didn’t want to tear my deer mounts up, but,” SA Grusing interjected to ask if Suzanne talked to Barry about him seeing her on her phone.
I think Barry is setting her up to be a crazy paranoid drunk who ripped out all of the security camera wires.
I think you may be correct about that. Plus, even if she did get drunk now and then (I might too if I were married to that neanderthal), and even if she really did accuse Barry of having an affair as a result of her own guilt over her own affair (and no one is saying any of this is true, but this appears to be the picture Barry wants us to see) none of that ever justifies what happened to her.
Essentially, Barry is victim blaming.