I understand and IMO it is wrong to not allow admission of prior acts. Barry in his own words admitted to clipping her nose. I still don’t completely understand why this is not allowed. I think what I am needing is an understanding of why it is not allowed especially when BM admitted it. I also doubt that was the only incident of DV since we know the master bedroom door was breached. It would indeed be interesting exactly what all DV Barry had subjected Suzanne to in the past. If stalking your wife and her friend in your own home under the pretense of oh I just smelled bad after hunting for a week and didn’t want to be seen/smelled that way is a justification for stalking and creeping them out then why not just text Suzanne and hey I smell really bad could you please let me in discreetly for a long shower so I can join you ladies for some conversation? It these statements are not allowed I would rather see a judge admit them and deal with appeals issues later. Why are DV victims including children silenced from historical events that they experienced? It’s wrong and the truth is the truth no matter how prejudiced it may appear. I hope I’m being clear. If a child is victim of abuse whether DV or otherwise why are their testaments not allowed within the law? There is something wrong when the law doesn’t permit the truth or evidence of the truth to be admitted. It is up to the jurors to decide what they believe to be the truth or most likely believable. I supposed I am chapped the most by what the judge is refusing to be admitted. It is a disservice to every victim IMO. Suzanne’s voice needs to be acknowledged and heard and I feel she is being additionally victimized by this judge’s decision. Love and respect you Cindizzi and hope I’m not coming across the wrong way. Cheers!
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Concur, in spades, Mom 2 Chlo':
- my youngest daughter's name as well; 36 in Aug? Oy! -
Your well-founded argument keys to the inherently vexatious process whereby we hope to "discover truth" from a pitched adversarial, almost cripplingly-structured contest.
It was while searching for some support as to my evidence classroom recollection/ dream(?) - posted earlier - that "Every person owes their testimony to the State/Crown", that I was rewarded by discovering this observation by Stanley Baldwin, thrice British Prime Minister, uniquely so, during the momentous years between the World Wars.
"I am not struck so much by the diversity of testimony
as by the many-sidedness of truth."
as by the many-sidedness of truth."
Stanley Baldwin, (1867 - 1947)
1st Earl Baldwin of Bewdley
KG, PC, PC (Can), JP, FRS
[Oh, to have for the merest moment, in some single consideration, such a degree of perception as this...
And to recognize that moment.
And express it.
Before it slips away.
'cause it was nap time.]