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IMO the level of dysfunction in that family if off the charts -but that's all the girl's have ever known. Their Mom always seemed to put on a happy face and prop Dad up - now they are filling her shoes. and mimicing her behavior. IMO It's learned behavior not chosen behavior for them plus it is reinforced I am sure by Dad and Iris.It's all about appearances and always has been. No matter how tone-deaf.
Suzanne was just beginning to see with clarity. It took her years.
I imagine it will be a long process for the girls to see themselves to the other side, if they choose that path.