This is how I see it. It is my merely opinions and speculations based upon facts of this case.
Barry is incapable of protecting the daughters. One must first love by showing he values their happiness. If he cared about their happiness, he would have allowed their mother a divorce so they would still have the benefit of both parents in their lives yet, instead, he elected to murder their mother in a cynical, calculating manner.
Faith and hope benefit ourselves while love benefits the receiver of our love. Suzanne endured troubles, with her health and struggles within her marriage, yet held onto her spiritual faith and the hopes for a happy, peaceful life but she was denied the beauty found in loving another man, of living to see her daughters mature, marry, and perhaps, have children of their own.
Isn't it greater to love than to be loved? I would say no. To be loved is the most generous gift someone can give to us. It is the gift of kindness, gentleness without jealousy or irritability. To be loved, boosts our self confidence and motivates us to reach our fullest potential. Barry said he loved Suzanne but he was not gentle with her. He was jealous and irritated with her.
I see these three as rejoicing in wrongdoing when they should rejoice in truth. I see Barry as receiving the benefit of their love, while his, in return, is conditional, as it was with Suzanne. Barry resented Suzanne for no longer needing him while he swelled with resentfulness and bitterness and harsh criticisms.
Barry is a user. He used their children against Suzanne. He used his friends and co-workers. He betrayed business associates. He's a hypocrite. He hired "meth" users yet detested those who used drugs. He searched for cute young girls. Think about that - young girls. How young, Barry?
In Suzanne's last proof of life photo, she was not drunk from wine or beer. She was intoxicated from the unconditional love she was receiving from JL. Moments later, she'd be hit with a tranquilizer dart that would sedate her long enough for Barry to hide her body. It is why he's charged with Murder1.
In LSs video, I learned, for the first time, that Barry's tranq medication was expired by two years. Most meds are still good for potentially three years. I have a prescription from AUG 2020 that remains just as effective as the day it was filled.
I find it reprehensible that Barry tranquilized animals in order to saw off their antlers to sell at a profit. I find it unforgivable that he tranquilized his wife so he could kill her more easily without much of a fight. Suzanne, at this point in her life, possessed a strong desire to live - to live for love. She fought back.
The jury will see the startling images of those scratches on Barry's arm and know brushing against a branch did not cause those marks. They won't need an expert to inform them what their eyes can clearly see. The scratches were made by a desperate lady who was raging against the dying of the light.
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