I just don't even know why this comes up in a police interview. Also, him telling their friends his daughter is the only virgin at her college. I recall another conversation where he said they did it several times a day in Florida. We know he lies a lot, but he also was so out of touch with what Suzanne even needed or wanted. I don't believe he even cared as long as he got what he wanted.
RBBM
Correct. IMO as is the case with most Narcissists,
it’s all about them ergo BM, who imo is a Narcissist, is much too self absorbed to consider or care about what other people’s needs or wants are to include Spouse, kids, friends, etc. As long as his needs are being met and he gets what he wants, that’s all that matters to him. Other people are seen and treated as possessions/objects that are there to please him and for him to control, use, abuse and discard/dispose of as he sees fit and/or to suit his needs. Case in point for just one example- when BM used his younger daughter as a shield (imo to do his dirty work), had the poor girl confront Lauren Scharf outside the Poncha Springs condo, then turns around and blames Lauren for upsetting his daughter. Classic manipulation and gaslighting, two common weapons in the abusive narcissist’s arsenal that he used on his own Daughter and a tenacious reporter who was trying to help him find HIS wife. It’s as awful as it is pathetic.
As to him telling friends during dinner conversation that his daughter is the only virgin at her college- First, how tf does he even know that. Second, how would his daughter feel about her Dad telling his friends something so personal. If she found out he had discussed her virginity with his friends, I’d think that would be very upsetting to his daughter. Some topics are off limits, and especially something so personal, something no Father should be discussing with his friends as dinner conversation! Omg. No. Just, no.
As if that all weren’t bad enough, he tells investigators that he and Suzanne did it several times a day in FL, that she had an ‘O’ every time they had sex etc., sure BM. Not really, probably just more of your lies. I mean, where I come from, those are the kinds of things most of the guy jocks boasted (lied) about to their friends/teammates in high school locker rooms (according to my male relatives lol). Which brings me to my next point, based on the way he talks and acts, methinks BM was emotionally stunted aged 14-17 somewhere in that range, since his high school baseball jock days anyways. IOW, imo BM is a man-child which is to say, an immature/emotionally stunted teenager living in a man’s body.
All one has to do is look no further than the AA and his statements like the ones noted above, and also saying to investigators something to the effect that all we men need is sex and we’re good, and about how he tried to cop a feel on Suzanne’s friend Holly, so gross! I’m sure there’s more I’m forgetting but you get the gist. Yeah, imo he’s a man-child, narcissist and liar. He’s all that and worse- a murderer, that needs to pay for what he did. I do trust that investigators including Grusing an employee of CCSO now (yay!) are still working diligently behind the scenes, and hopefully justice for Suzanne will come sooner rather than later.
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