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I think people are always fascinated by people who amass upper middle class lifestyles with corresponding assets and especially when their wealth is not the result of professional salaries etc. But not uncommon with trades, something that people are becoming aware of. And he did it in the trades with a college degree so the man is clearly not "dumb" even if ultimately he did a "dumb" thing for lack of a better word. I also think Iris herself holds a fascination for some people and how juicy to speculate there is "something" between the two of them. I would imagine that type of public speculation could be offensive to female criminal attorneys. He has a female civil attorney now but no salacious speculation about that woman. It always gives me things to chuckle about.
“I think people are always fascinated by people who amass upper middle class lifestyles with corresponding assets and especially when their wealth is not the result of professional salaries etc. But not uncommon with trades, something that people are becoming aware of.”
Interesting opinion on your part. I guess it must be prevalent in your circle.
In my world, people are very aware of ways to make money blue or white color. College educated or not.
Kids start learning right with the bring your Dad/Mom to work to talk about their job in grade school – lots of everyday exposure to different types of vocations and avocations
There does still appear to be a bit of a stigma to blue collar work in certain circles but no one I know is confused about the money you can make
But lets look at Barry.
I don’t see anyone on these threads fascinated by how he made his money
He jump started his career by marrying up - in every sense of the word.
How much $$$ did Gene or Suzanne’s stepfather the doctor kick in to get him going originally as a landscaper. When Suzanne met him he was out of college and working as a maintenance man on the golf course behind her house. We have no idea who funded him to give him a foundation to build on. We do know if was not his family. We also know of his business shenanigans in Indiana mentioned many times.
When we caught up with them they had moved from Indiana to Colorado – there was speculation that BM had worn out his welcome in the area’s business world where they were and they needed a fresh start. Their marriage seemed also on the rocks with SM claiming an affair ( the bracelet in his truck that one of BM’s sisters later claimed as hers eyeroll)
Barry like to cut corners and not obey rules. Trading on relationships built during college where he was the aspiring baseball star. We saw that play out with the whole Broomfield wall fiasco. And we all know how rigorous the academics were for the star athletes back in the day.
Barry is street smart. He is by no means book smart. In fact the wife he killed did his billing and books and offered to do the same after the divorce – leading me to believe he could not do them himself. His employees in the Salida were contract workers.
As Suzanne’s sister intimated – BM et al lived above their means – having the trappings of success was always important to them. But that’s not really how they lived. The furniture etc in their Colorado house came with it. It was all in the previous listing. The place was old and tired in need of an update. Another reason opined for the move was to take advantage of instate tuition for Mal. They were strapped for cash IMO. Barry was day trading in silver and dragging the digger around town trying to get action. These were not monied people. They were aspirational.
All fine but let’s not pretend.
“I also think Iris herself holds a fascination for some people and how juicy to speculate there is "something" between the two of them. I would imagine that type of public speculation could be offensive to female criminal attorneys. He has a female civil attorney now but no salacious speculation about that woman. It always gives me things to chuckle about.”
No fascination for me. I do find her bright intellectually. I also find her ruthless, nasty and distasteful as a human being. Reference her attack on Lauren Scharf
To me she is a woman who wants to make a name for herself. Her clients are a means to that end. She gets wife killers off. So far that is what she is known for. That’s seems to be her thing despite that she is advocating for straightening out the prosecutors. Her blind spots imo keep her from being that lawyer she wants to be.
She is charismatic but eventually alienates people by her abrasive over the top ways.
As far as “salacious” speculation about Iris and BM
Well, one only has to pay attention – it’s all been in public – lots of touching, hugging too long and yes inappropriately. Kissing on the lips. Iris talking iirc about being a “mom” to the girls. So… in this reality tv world, there is lots of speculation. ..If that’s what you see in public… well than my goodness, what’s happening in private??
If its offensive to IE, why feed the narrative esp with that big smacker on the lips chasing him to his truck after court that day? Its not offensive to her IMO
Optics! If anything IE understands Optics! She is the master of theater.
To me they seem to be two manipulators involved in a “dance”.
As far as the female civil attorney I have seen no inappropriate fondling so I opine that’s why no chatter in that area.
Lots of chuckling for all us going on
Obvi JMO