Motives? Or Flimsy Excuses?
@Kittybunny sbm bbm Thanks for post w your kind words,

but I can't take credit for these creative explanations.
In MSM, I've read all those defenses/excuses (in my earlier post) provided by def team IRL cases to rebut prosecutor's evd of those actions showing pre-meditation or deliberation. Aside from
worst excuse* in a case that did not make it to trial.

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* 40+ yrs ago. No MSM
I recall a school teacher who was married for 20 + yrs to a man, an engineer w decades-long 9-5 employment at a Fortune 500 co. Typical middle class, suburban church going fam; he was the ever helpful neighbor; a volunteer referee for high school sports, whole nine yards.
One day the wife became sick, then sicker, went to hosp., semi-recovered, was discharged, followed by half a dozen hosp stays like first one. For ~ 18 mo's, she rode this roller coaster up until the final stag when she was bedfast w virtually no motor control.
Finally a diagnosis, followed by rehab to re-learn ADL's, walking, talking, dressing & feeding herself, etc. She used wheelchair for many years afterward.
Oh, the diagnosis was poison.
(I cannot recall which one. Arsenic? Strychnine? Something less common? Regardless.) The man had been
poisoning wife w small, non-lethal doses for a year and a half. His explanation for doing this? He
loved her and wanted to
spend more time w her?!?!?
Members of this couple's church, including my parents, had not seen this side of the husband's character before his arrest. They had a tough time understanding his purported line of reasoning. No difficulty grasping why he chose a 25 yr plea agreement, bypassing a trial & possible life sentence for attempted murder.