HastingsChi
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Since we know so little about whether Adam was diagnosed with Aspergers, if so when was he diagnosed, and what kind of regular review took place, I think there is a huge question mark on what was happening with him over the years, especially the last 3-4 years. We don't know if he had some co-morbid mental illness either or if he was on medication. We also don't know, as I've said before, if Adam expected his own performance in college to be much higher than it was. And, his success may or may not have been due to cognitive ability - ability only means you can do something if you have the right circumstances and apply yourself. Many emotional/physical problems can interfere with your thinking ... and, as we know stress or emotional problems can cause physical problems. Some people are also quite good at limited problem solving or completing tasks, but not good at more fuzzy logic, moral problem solving, or complex thought. I don't want to rely on pictures too much, but Adam's classmates didn't say anything about him really acting or looking bad. That was at 17? He does look bad in the Driver's license photo at 18 (of course, I don't want anyone to see my DL photos either).
Thank you for the reply; I am learning a lot more about Asperger's disorder from your posts, other WS members posts and Asperger's-specific organization's sites.
As much as I value and support HIPAA Privacy Rules and similar, these are one of those situations that I wish there were exceptions (but understand what a slippery slope such exceptions could allow for) as we all are yearning for answers.
BTW your driver's license comment was hilarious.