I understand exactly what you're saying.
I just saw my doctor and he sure had a different attitude, I was surprised.
First, he said I could go off my blood thinner. The cause of my clots was isolated bad travel events, no underlying condition. He said after 6 mos. of blood thiner clots are absorbed. He doesn't consider that a risk, and doesn't consider our high BP a risk.
The only thing he was a bit concerned about was DH's asthma. But he said as long as he takes his inhalers along, ok. He also doesn't consider us elderly, to him elderly is over 70. He does not consider me to be an unhealthy risk.
He said the virus is coming, lots of people are going to get it. We're going to get it in our state (even though he said it's extremely difficult to get tested for it here.) He seems to be in the "like getting the cold or the flu" school. He said if we want to go see our grandbaby, go; just don't go out and about much while we're there.
To be clear, that's what he said, not what I'm saying. Not saying I agree.