This makes my heart ache. Saying prayers for your friends, for you, and for all of us.
O/T a bit.
My Nana is on hospice. She’s about 3 months past the 6 month expiration date her doctor guesstimated. Her transition is developing quickly. Today I am so sad for her. She’s in her early 90’s and has ovarian cancer. She chose to forgo treatment and live the rest of her best life. She’s no longer accepting visitors and we had her over one night a week for dinner. It crushes me that this will be the ending to her story. Isolated and lonely.
Lonely? Not at all. You are with her in mind and spirit. Her story is your's to tell and I would tell it loud and proud. She is trying to spare you the short-term suffering. How incredibly unselfish of her to spare your feelings.
JMO