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That’s BEYOND wrong.
Anyone out here who knows of an alternative solution to just breaking down the hospital doors?
we're not even allowed to go hold a sign up to his window from the parking lot - we had asked if a nurse would mind wheeling him to the window to see us - but it's not allowed 'for insurance reasons'
we are allowed to phone him but he can't hear very well (his hearing aids are at home) and we can't hear him very well because he has lost most of his voice and his throat hurts and he can hardly breathe - we still call him and talk really loud so that he can at least hear our voices - we take shifts and there's a lot of us so he gets 2/3 phonecalls a day
he told me the other day that he just wants to go home and asked me if I could get a message to someone for him but I couldn't understand what the message was or hear who he wanted me to give it to
it's just devastating to know that I will never see my Dad again and my Mom can't even say goodbye in person to her husband of 60 years