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I know someone who took her 83 y/o mother for a pedicure, no one was wearing masks. They were both completely aware because churches weren’t even holding services and the 83 y/o normally never misses a service. I don’t even know why the salon was open at that time! It’s in some very small town, so maybe they all thought they were immune. SMHOkay, so before I head off for the night - I thought I'd ask you all a few questions.
Do you know people who are over 80 who are still going out without masks? Do they go to indoor events where people sing (like church) or where people might spend a couple of hours indoors (like clubs or Rotary or whatnot)?
I'm asking because nearly all of my older relatives are gone. My MiL is 82 (got CoVid in hospital, is home, doing "okay," but now quite frail; she had a fall and had to go to hospital). My good friend is 71, has no clue how she got it (maybe a pharmacy?) Says she has worn a mask every time she's gone out - she's fine too. Maybe a bit of brain fog and fatigue. My cousin, aged 70, worked in a place with refrigerated air - did not wear a mask, was very very sick and now has a persistent cough, weakness, fatigue, brain fog, some kind of shooting pain in his head.
I keep wondering if the word is getting out to the older people. These church stories really get to me - so preventable and I don't get why people are still doing church in person. Do we blame the pastors for opening up on Sundays? Are the elderly demanding/asking for these services? My mom stopped going to church after her last cancer surgery (she was 80), it was just too difficult for her. She was a germophobe and would always call ahead before family gatherings to ask if anyone had the sniffles or any signs of infection.
Are there people out there who just don't understand - or do they think they've lived long enough?
Do you foresee a time (like, when you're 90 or something) when you just will want to go out and do whatever you want to do?
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