Crystal S., Haleigh's mother #8

[curvecuti]

I don't think I would be comfortable in my day to day life if I thought my children were in danger or in harms way. Quite honestly I see no proof that Crystal believes RJ is in danger with Ronald. Quite the contrary, lately it appears that when Crystal is in front of a microphone she tries to keep the peace and speak out in regards to Ronalds love for Haleigh. Personally I am thrilled that she has decided to focus on bringing Haleigh home rather causing a bitter divide. As mother to Haleigh and RJ she should have a valid say in where her priorities are right now. A custody dispute can be raised at a later date. Despite the many different opinions on this forum about what is best for RJ, I think Crystal might know better than the rest of us what is best for her son. JMO

Thanks elle, that's what I was trying to get at, I think if CS believed Jr. was in danger she would not leave him at RC's.

 

[Flossie JMO]

I was thinking of Crystal last night, she reminds me alot of my former best friend from high school. My friend had a child at the same age Crystal did and she was in a physically abusive relationship. The difference is that my friend would have never let her ex "take" her children.
This is something I can not get past w/ CS. Why is she not fighting everyday to get Jr.? Why did she not fight everyday to get Haleigh and Jr. back from RC? MOO, she doesn't want the responsibilty. I drew that conclusion from reading the custody docs where she told the judge she didn't want to get up to take sweet little Haleigh to the Dr. I was also appalled at her admission of using cocaine while pregnant w/ Jr.
I was reading the docs because of the thread about why was Jr. not in his Mom's custody now. It's quite a revelation if you have not read them.
I think MG is very much interested in CS getting custody of the kids but I think it is more about spite and "winning" over RC and family rather than concern over the kids welfare. All is MOO.
If my ex had my child and I thought that his new wife had any responsibilty for my other child's disappearence, I would go to the ends of the earth to get custody. I would go so far as to not return him from a visitation and go into hiding. I could not lay down and sleep if I believed that.

ITA Curve.

 

[Trident]

I don't think I would be comfortable in my day to day life if I thought my children were in danger or in harms way. Quite honestly I see no proof that Crystal believes RJ is in danger with Ronald. Quite the contrary, lately it appears that when Crystal is in front of a microphone she tries to keep the peace and speak out in regards to Ronalds love for Haleigh. Personally I am thrilled that she has decided to focus on bringing Haleigh home rather causing a bitter divide. As mother to Haleigh and RJ she should have a valid say in where her priorities are right now. A custody dispute can be raised at a later date. Despite the many different opinions on this forum about what is best for RJ, I think Crystal might know better than the rest of us what is best for her son. JMO

I think that was a very resonable post. Crystal may very well have JR's best interests at heart and perhaps she feels uprooting him at this time may not be the best thing for him. If so, I applaude her. However, I wonder if it's in his best interests to be in a small trailer with 3 adults and the "supposed" tension that's going on. IF the tension isn't going on and no one is very interested in why Misty failed the polys, well, I have to wonder if JR isn't in a very dangerous situation right now.

We don't know for sure what happened to Haleigh. Can we say for sure the same thing won't happen to JR?

Just questioning.

 

[texasmommy39]

BBM

I don't blame the poor woman for being upset, but to answer your question, apparently she is just venting. No big issues are going to get solved on the Twitter. It's just a release for her. imo.

Crystal appears to be a very soft spoken person who holds a lot in.... I'm glad to see her getting fiesty and blowing off some steam. It's about time she told Misty like it is! GO CRYSTAL!! :highfive:


By the way, Texasmommy: I had no idea she had a Twitter account, thank you for sharing.

Your welcome I didn't know either until I went looking. LOL
I agree that as a mother it is a understandable response,but, I find it a little to late and odd that it is expressed as if in response to a current conversation with IMO MIsty. I may be wrong and it is nothing but a delayed comment ,but, after all it was posted after the Letter to the news paper and Rons attorney being made aware of its contents and implications. If I where Crystal I would pose a bigger threat to Misty than Ron could ever be. Crystal has no love of Misty of that I am sure of.

 

[elle1919]

I think that was a very resonable post. Crystal may very well have JR's best interests at heart and perhaps she feels uprooting him at this time may not be the best thing for him. If so, I applaude her. However, I wonder if it's in his best interests to be in a small trailer with 3 adults and the "supposed" tension that's going on. IF the tension isn't going on and no one is very interested in why Misty failed the polys, well, I have to wonder if JR isn't in a very dangerous situation right now.

We don't know for sure what happened to Haleigh. Can we say for sure the same thing won't happen to JR?

Just questioning.

Perfectly good questions!

I agree with the emphasis that you put on "supposed' tension, that is all we are able to do because we are not present in the home with RJ to observe. While the facts surrounding the case are few the opinions are many and rather than assume that RJ is in danger or at risk all I can do is trust that when DCF finished their investigation into allegations and decided that RJ would stay in the custody of RC they were making the best decision based on their private investigation.

More at this link:http://www.wesh.com/news/20075323/detail.html

I do not buy into the conspiracy that The Department of Children and Family Services as well as the PCSO are involved in a cover up to clear Ronald of any wrongdoing in his daughter's disappearance. Just my honest opinion.

 

[KOOL LOOK]

I agree that as a mother it is a understandable response,but, I find it a little to late and odd that it is expressed as if in response to a current conversation with IMO MIsty. I may be wrong and it is nothing but a delayed comment ,but, after all it was posted after the Letter to the news paper and Rons attorney being made aware of its contents and implications. If I where Crystal I would pose a bigger threat to Misty than Ron could ever be. Crystal has no love of Misty of that I am sure of.

The latest responses towards Misty from both Crystal and Marie are un-called for, attacking and dis-tasteful, not to mention the timing. I have no problem with them being upset, but to start taking one and two statements Misty made in the beginning, when she was just responding naturally as this case un-folded and make public remarks that are mean is wrong.

IMO, no one in this case has room to put down the other, nor even if they did, should they. What purpose is it serving to benefit Haleigh and finding her? None. To my knowledge, Misty hasn't attacked any of Haleigh's other side of the family exhibiting responsible sensitive behavior to the circumstances at hand.

 

[texasmommy39]

I think that was a very resonable post. Crystal may very well have JR's best interests at heart and perhaps she feels uprooting him at this time may not be the best thing for him. If so, I applaude her. However, I wonder if it's in his best interests to be in a small trailer with 3 adults and the "supposed" tension that's going on. IF the tension isn't going on and no one is very interested in why Misty failed the polys, well, I have to wonder if JR isn't in a very dangerous situation right now.

We don't know for sure what happened to Haleigh. Can we say for sure the same thing won't happen to JR?

Just questioning.

Food for further thought: All efforts to seek custody ended with DCF's findings and Kim P.'s exit.

 

[Malesherbes]

Food for further thought: All efforts to seek custody ended with DCF's findings and Kim P.'s exit.

Really? Is that why Rons new lawyers say they are going to be representing him with custody things?

 

[grammieto5]

I think it's just good manners to be respectful of those that have different opinions. You're right elle,we may never know, or we might one day. I do think she still cares and is jealous of Misty, but that's just my opinion, we don't have to agree. If it were me, I couldn't care less who others have doubts about, or who it bothers, all I would want is my daughter back home, you know what I mean?

I've been sitting here trying to think of one reason why anyone would be jealous of Misty.............still thinking................still can't think of one reason.

 

[Malesherbes]

I've been sitting here trying to think of one reason why anyone would be jealous of Misty.............still thinking................still can't think of one reason.

Maybe some are jealous because they wish they were a child again? Thats the only thing I can think of-

 

[curvecuti]

I've been sitting here trying to think of one reason why anyone would be jealous of Misty.............still thinking................still can't think of one reason.

I can think of one. They still have feelings for Ron C. And I think CS does. And I can totally understand why she does, he is her first love, the father of 2 of her kids, feelings like that stay w/ you for awhile.

 

[Malesherbes]

I can think of one. They still have feelings for Ron C. And I think CS does. And I can totally understand why she does, he is her first love, the father of 2 of her kids, feelings like that stay w/ you for awhile.

So you know for a fact that Crystal never had another boyfriend before Ron?

What does this even have to do with a child possibly being abducted? I mean now some claim to know that Haleighs mother still has feelings for Ron? Is this important? She also has a child with someone else and they are engaged, how can one feel comfy pretending to know how she feels?

 

[Flossie JMO]

I've been sitting here trying to think of one reason why anyone would be jealous of Misty.............still thinking................still can't think of one reason.

I guess I wasn't clear in my post. Top 2 reasons that come to mind:

I believe Crystal still has very strong feelings for Ron and I think she is jealous that Misty is with Ron.

I think she is also jealous that Ron was with her for several years and had 2 children and didn't marry her, but married Misty. JMO

 

[elle1919]

I can think of one. They still have feelings for Ron C. And I think CS does. And I can totally understand why she does, he is her first love, the father of 2 of her kids, feelings like that stay w/ you for awhile.

I understand that you were offering your opinion of a reason that CS would be jealous of Misty. You offered a very valid reason and I for one think that it could be possible that CS might still have feelings for RC.

 

[Donjeta]

Perfectly good questions!

I agree with the emphasis that you put on "supposed' tension, that is all we are able to do because we are not present in the home with RJ to observe. While the facts surrounding the case are few the opinions are many and rather than assume that RJ is in danger or at risk all I can do is trust that when DCF finished their investigation into allegations and decided that RJ would stay in the custody of RC they were making the best decision based on their private investigation.

More at this link:http://www.wesh.com/news/20075323/detail.html

I do not buy into the conspiracy that The Department of Children and Family Services as well as the PCSO are involved in a cover up to clear Ronald of any wrongdoing in his daughter's disappearance. Just my honest opinion.

It's not just Ronald in the home with Jr., there is Misty too whom the PCSO have been unable to clear because she lies.

 

[curvecuti]

It's not just Ronald in the home with Jr., there is Misty too whom the PCSO have been unable to clear because she lies.

True, so what do you think is the reason CS is not fighting tooth and nail to get Jr. outta there if she believes MC had something to do w/ Haleigh going missing?

 

[elle1919]

It's not just Ronald in the home with Jr., there is Misty too whom the PCSO have been unable to clear because she lies.

lol....I know who allegedly resides in the home. Do you think that DCF did not question Misty or GGS or anyone that might be in contact with RJ before making such an important determination on where RJ would reside?

I was not aware that PCSO could not clear Misty because she lies. Who has PCSO cleared? That information has not been affirmed by them personally and while I agree that her story has inconsistencies I am waiting to see exactly how her inconsistencies will relate to Haleigh's disappearance. I would tend to agree with your statement more if LE would make an arrest in this case. I just can't help but wonder if Law Enforcement truly believes that Misty was involved in Haleigh's disappearance.

 

[Flossie JMO]

I think it's interesting LE has never said Misty lies, and she has never been charged with lying to police. And none of the extended families are cleared.

 

[KOOL LOOK]

lol....I know who allegedly resides in the home. Do you think that DCF did not question Misty or GGS or anyone that might be in contact with RJ before making such an important determination on where RJ would reside?

I was not aware that PCSO could not clear Misty because she lies. Who has PCSO cleared? That information has not been affirmed by them personally and while I agree that her story has inconsistencies I am waiting to see exactly how her inconsistencies will relate to Haleigh's disappearance. I would tend to agree with your statement more if LE would make an arrest in this case. I just can't help but wonder if Law Enforcement truly believes that Misty was involved in Haleigh's disappearance.

I'm really wondering if they now know Misty didn't have anything to do with it, for we know they wanted to nail, cuff n stuff her all the way up til last month. Now, they have to me, done a pivotal turn around in their behavior and non-statements, especially the accusatory towards Misty and her "LIES". I hope egos don't get in the way of a proper investigation no matter where it takes them. Unfortunately, we have some recent case studies like "Elizabeth Smarts" case where LE ego was more important than the missing child. I admire the Smarts and they should be the poster family for Americas Missing Children and Family representation.

 

[debs]

I think Crystal is an extremely sweet person.