I doubt she had bpd. I do believe she was a victim of his covert abuse. She probably never experienced it before. Of course she was all over the place. 5 kids, a controlling and emotionally abusive spouse, a cheat etc. she was fragile during this time. But no, didn’t have a personality disorder. Coersive control can make you crazy. Someone you don’t even recognize.
I think today we saw the impact and power that a discredited and disallowed Family Court report can have simply by virtue of its existence. We have seen the power of such a discredited report in the hands of Jon Schoenhorn and Audrey Felson the Defendants Attorneys in this case as they seek to weaponise a report that cannot be brought into the Trial as evidence by virtue of their effectively testifying about it in Court. I believe this to be profoundly wrong and I blame both them and Judge R for allowing it to happen and happen repeatedly.
The disgraced report is now alleged to be in possession of the Defendant and was apparently in view on her computer today in Court and is SEALED, meaning it is not to be in her possession.
Make no mistake that imo everything we saw play out in Court today was simply a continuation of everything that has been going on in Social Media from the Defendant and the Troconis Crew for 4 years now and I believe it all to be shameful as its based on Victim Shaming and Blaming as if JF is somehow responsible for her own murder by FD and MT and KM. Keep in mind, neither the Defendant nor her Family ever met the Victim. Nope, not once. Yet, they have felt entitled to blame and shame the Victim now for 4 years and have behaved in a similar manner towards PG.
We don't know what was in that discredited report and even if Defence Counsel/s and Defendant CLAIM to have knowledge about the contents there is absolutely no way to know if what they are saying is factually correct.
IMO we have witnessed never ending repeating claims about the disgraced report made by Jon Schoenhorn, Audrey Felson and Defendant since this trial began and its now brought us and the Court all down to the level of the Defendant and the Troconis Crew who has been seen on social media for the past 4 years where victim shaming has occurred on rinse and repeat.
We also respect Victims here and Victims and their children/families are entitled to respect and privacy.
I am hugely uncomfortable on behalf of the Victim and her children to repeat ANYTHING that Defence Counsel/s and Defendant have stated about a report that has never been seen and so cannot be corroborated and CANNOT BE ADMITTED AS EVIDENCE TO THIS TRIAL PER JUDGE R.
We are entitled to know nothing about JF here other than the fact that she is a VICTIM as are her 5 children. We have learned over the years alot on these threads about the DV she endured and the impact of DV on the entire Dulos family. Beyond this I personally don't feel comfortable going even though I do speak alot here about the impact of DV on people, family and loved ones. DV is a national tragedy and a human tragedy but I do believe strongly that DV Victims or any Victim for that matter is entitled to respect and privacy both in life and in death.
There has been a concerted plan in place imo both on social media and in this Courtroom by Jon Schoenhorn and Audrey Felson and the Defendant and Troconis Crew to bring the discredited report which was disallowed in Family Court into the Defendants trial. This campaign has been going on for years. I do believe that by virtue of repeating their statements that it sickly gives credence to what I firmly believe are mischaracterisations that they are repeating for their own purposes.
We saw today a disgraceful imo cross by Audrey Felson of Atty Meehan, former GAL where she pushed and prodded on the issue of the disgraced and discredited report until Judge R had enough and said, "you have crossed the double yellow line" to one of her statements posed as a question (she is learning quickly from Defence Counsel with his "testimony/cross routine"). Let that sink in. Audrey Felson today simply in effect took off her earrings and jumped in the sewer with the Defendant and the Troconis Crew to mud wrestle for every shred of information she could pull out of a report that Judge R had ruled cannot be admitted as evidence. There are lines of behaviour and rules of Court and today Audrey Felson crossed them all not one but 4 times by my count and she did it with no impunity other than a scolding by Judge R. Vigorous defence is a cornerstone of the judicial process but we are sadly bearing witness imo to something that far exceeds the bounds of vigorous defence.
What is happening both in Court by the Defendant today and on Social Media imo is wrong on so many levels, not the least of which is because the person the Defendant and Troconis Crew and Joh Schoenhorn and Audrey Felson claim to speak about is NOT HERE to defend themselves or speak for themselves in any way.
I've spoken alot about DV and the impact it can have on even the strongest of the mentally and psychologically strong amongst us. DV can bring strong people to their knees psychologically and keep them there a long time even with therapy ime.
I don't know what the correct answer on this complex issue of Victim privacy and respect but I think as a start it might make sense to not repeat anything having to do with Defence or Defendant statements regarding the Victim that they allege to have come from a discredited sealed document as that is precisely what they are trying to make happen.
Just my POV.
MOO