Silver Alert CT - Jennifer Dulos, 50, New Canaan, 24 May 2019 #13 *ARRESTS*

[bkgregg5]

I believe there is an older aunt of FD lives in Md. or DE. that lists her occupation as with a 'tanning' business which I recall is located
in Greece.
She uses the old spelling of the family name "Dulous".

I believe it’s Philly. At least, the relative I found. DE is a tiny state (currently reside there). I’ll have to check around and see if I missed something, but generally speaking it’s hard to keep something scandalous (like being related to FD) on the down low in a small state.

 

[Rosiebones]

I wonder if there is a grain of truth in what FD says, that things had become more cordial in recent time between he and JD. I wonder if this was a calculated strategy on his part so that if he pulled up to the house that Friday morning with someone else, JD would not have felt threatened or alarmed. After all there was someone with him perhaps someone she knew.

I wonder if that someone was someone who, more indirectly, stood to lose their business (unpaid contractor for ex.) or an employee who could sure use an untraceable sum of immediate cash. Someone because of their circumstances, he knew would keep their mouths shut . Someone who couldn't talk now because they would incriminate themselves. (not EE)

I can see her getting out of her car and turning and going into the house and being hit. The accomplice immediately puts the body in the tool compartment of his truck. FD cleans up and puts bags in truck.
He drives her car to Waveney Park, and he is picked up by accomplice in the truck. They go to Mt. Spring the bags are put in his truck and the body goes off with the accomplice for disposal.

FD can honestly say he doesn't know where she is and if he hadn't been so stupid with his phone and if there had been no cameras on Albany Ave., he could have said he and MT went out for dinner and it would be hard to prove otherwise.
The altered plates are used on the accomplices truck and taken off back at Mt. Spring.

Two huge mistakes;
1. the blood in the garage
2. the trip to Albany that was recorded by their phones and therefore the cameras.
All this is totally my opinion,

 

[sun16]

IMO I still think JD’s body was either:

1) Taken to the trash/incineration plant
2) Driven 50+ miles away and dumped

Leaning towards #2.

 

[afitzy]

Michael Dinan is an excellent journalist. I could not find the money trail article you mentioned can you link here?

Hi, here you go! Missing New Canaan Woman’s Mother: Estranged Husband Owes Family $2.5 Million in Loans

 

[Chessman]

I wonder if there is a grain of truth in what FD says, that things had become more cordial in recent time between he and JD. I wonder if this was a calculated strategy on his part so that if he pulled up to the house that Friday morning with someone else, JD would not have felt threatened or alarmed. After all there was someone with him perhaps someone she knew.

I wonder if that someone was someone who, more indirectly, stood to lose their business (unpaid contractor for ex.) or an employee who could sure use an untraceable sum of immediate cash. Someone because of their circumstances, he knew would keep their mouths shut . Someone who couldn't talk now because they would incriminate themselves. (not EE)

I can see her getting out of her car and turning and going into the house and being hit. The accomplice immediately puts the body in the tool compartment of his truck. FD cleans up and puts bags in truck.
He drives her car to Waveney Park, and he is picked up by accomplice in the truck. They go to Mt. Spring the bags are put in his truck and the body goes off with the accomplice for disposal.

FD can honestly say he doesn't know where she is and if he hadn't been so stupid with his phone and if there had been no cameras on Albany Ave., he could have said he and MT went out for dinner and it would be hard to prove otherwise.
The altered plates are used on the accomplices truck and taken off back at Mt. Spring.

Two huge mistakes;
1. the blood in the garage
2. the trip to Albany that was recorded by their phones and therefore the cameras.
All this is totally my opinion,

I agree with much of this, but more will be revealed by the diligent work the FBI, the state and local police have been doing with their evidence gathering. I hope the CCTV images are high resolution because much of the surveillance done these days is not. Clearly Orwell was wrong, surveillance cameras are a two edged sword in a society of laws, and have been used to hold everyone accountable.

Also the possibility of an accomplice especially from the criminal underworld is a big likelihood. Culturally New Canaan like much of the NY suburban area, "not rocking the boat" was a given, and the mentality that good and prosperity will come to you if you let everything go. Don't report anything, act the part of a good citizen with much corruption buried and suppressed. Such a mentality carries a large psychological burden. But that is the culture in which a Fotis Dulos would thrive in. Threatening workers that they better stay quiet about what they may know. In a case like this however failing to report known criminal conduct makes people an accessory to crime. If you look in the local New Canaan newspapers, there is little in the way of activism by local residents except of things that affect housing values or may tinge the supposed stellar reputation of New Canaan, the schools and how "wonderful" it is. This breeds a cowardly stance where people are afraid to be outspoken on major issues. But there is nothing really more special about this town or CT compared with others.

 

[afitzy]

This picture is going to prove to be very important. Thank you for posting this.
Here is the link the the video:
Fotis Dulos emerges at Sturbridge Hill home to continue work Fotis Dulos emerges at Sturbridge Hill home to continue work

I agree with you completely as it proves I believe what so many on here describe in terms of their personal experiences with personalities of this 'type' and why even though my tech work on making the photo was poor I posted it to the thread. When you watch the entire video you can see the 'switch flip' and the mask of FD comes off, frustration sets in and boom the arms go up and later he stomps off to have the animated cell phone call. I really wonder about FD impulse control abilities and also whether he feels so entitled that when people don't follow his wishes that he simply 'explodes' with frustration and anger.

The person with him seemed familiar with the FD behavior and you can see the companion almost backing off in retreat to stand closer to the truck as FD goes into the mini tantrum of frustration. All I could imagine seeing this was to wonder in pity how many times JD had seen this and tried to manage through the sitatuation to protect the children. Its almost as if JD had 6 toddlers in her life!

 

[Harmony 2]

Most ex's have little good to say about the former spouse. That's why they divorced. I respectfully disagree. It's more likely that wife number one was aware of FD already having a woman waiting in the wings. In some states a newly divorced person has to wait a period of time before remarrying. 30 days in Texas.
I'd like to post her background from what I have read, I just don't remember where I read it so I cannot link to a site. Can a mod help with this?

Sleuthing possible witnesses or periphery case players, who are not named as person of interests or suspects, is not allowed. A mainstream media link would need to be provided and only the content of the article could be discussed. Background of a possible witness is not relevant to the discussion here unless it is written about in msm.

Hope that helps.. feel free to contact a moderator if you have further questions or if you need clarity.

 

[bubby girl]

IMO I still think JD’s body was either:

1) Taken to the trash/incineration plant
2) Driven 50+ miles away and dumped

Leaning towards #2.

or 3) in water...

going back to 2), after the utah college students body was found 80 miles away, FD may well have done this, there is lots of land...

 

[enelram]

I agree with you completely as it proves I believe what so many on here describe in terms of their personal experiences with personalities of this 'type' and why even though my tech work on making the photo was poor I posted it to the thread. When you watch the entire video you can see the 'switch flip' and the mask of FD comes off, frustration sets in and boom the arms go up and later he stomps off to have the animated cell phone call. I really wonder about FD impulse control abilities and also whether he feels so entitled that when people don't follow his wishes that he simply 'explodes' with frustration and anger.

The person with him seemed familiar with the FD behavior and you can see the companion almost backing off in retreat to stand closer to the truck as FD goes into the mini tantrum of frustration. All I could imagine seeing this was to wonder in pity how many times JD had seen this and tried to manage through the sitatuation to protect the children. Its almost as if JD had 6 toddlers in her life!

You continue to be so very insightful on the subleties of FD's
behaviors and temperament. I so enjoy reading your take on
things and find myself going 'Un Huh', she's right on, again.
Either you have a world of experience in identifying his type
or you're trained to pick up the clues. Either way, many of us appreciate your contributions.

I've known some people similar to FD and one in particular is
a family member who I've tried to 'figure' out and sort out his
problems- nature or nurture? In his instance I believe it's
a bit of both. Certain traits were inherent at birth, but his childhood
was a bit spoiled, one sibling sister- 15 yrs. older, so in essence he
was raised as an only child due to sibling's age, just as FD was.
This family member was also over-indulged, felt entitled, had
very poor impulse control, a bad temper and rage, pure rage
was his go to emotion. Grew up to be domineering and few
friends.
I would guess FD's upbringing was similar. Also remember in
so many old time families, the first (or only) male son is the
'chosen' one, to be exalted and treated differently than other siblings.
FD was no doubt allowed to get away with so much bad behavior as a youngster that he expects the same in his adulthood.
These men are very very shallow emotionally and fail to
develop much emotional maturity. Typical Man-Child.

 

[Midwestmom2019]

Sleuthing possible witnesses or periphery case players, who are not named as person of interests or suspects, is not allowed. A mainstream media link would need to be provided and only the content of the article could be discussed. Background of a possible witness is not relevant to the discussion here unless it is written about in msm.

Hope that helps.. feel free to contact a moderator if you have further questions or if you need clarity.

Must have been msm bc I didn’t know he was divorced, her name, any other facts to allow me to creep her. Just can’t tell you where I read about it. Might have been here on an earlier thread: <modsnipped>Linked info bc Texas is home to another ex wife linked to Utah Mackenzie Leuck case. And I’m in Texas. And a lawyer. Co ink eee dinks.

 

[enelram]

Hi, here you go! Missing New Canaan Woman’s Mother: Estranged Husband Owes Family $2.5 Million in Loans

The NERVE of this man. So JD's parents are also being charged by
bank because they co-signed for his home in Farmington at JC and
this loon was living there with his golddigger gf, free of charge and
maintains his office there. No wonder he has it listed at twice the appraised value. HAH.

What a slimy mess he made coming into this family. It's like they invited the devil into their lives.

And such a shame that after living for 85 years GF has to contend with fighting this battle on her own. I feel for her.

 

[Chicago54]

The NERVE of this man. So JD's parents are also being charged by
bank because they co-signed for his home in Farmington at JC and
this loon was living there with his golddigger gf, free of charge and
maintains his office there. No wonder he has it listed at twice the appraised value. HAH.

What a slimy mess he made coming into this family. It's like they invited the devil into their lives.

And such a shame that after living for 85 years GF has to contend with fighting this battle on her own. I feel for her.

Doesn’t Jennifer have a sister? Iirc MSM reported that early on, but now I’ve seen nothing and have been wondering about GF fighting on her own.

 

[Midwestmom2019]

IMO I still think JD’s body was either:

1) Taken to the trash/incineration plant
2) Driven 50+ miles away and dumped

Leaning towards #2.

I looked at Connecticut map last night. If he drove to Hartford, he certainly could have driven to the ocean. I’m with you on driving 50 miles. Just think it was ocean. And if she was bloody, “plenty of (hungry) fish in the sea.” Sick interpretation of quote. She could have found another man. There are plenty of fish in the sea, as the saying goes.. but in the end, the fish in the sea that she caught, may have eaten her. Euk.

 

[Rosiebones]

I looked at Connecticut map last night. If he drove to Hartford, he certainly could have driven to the ocean. I’m with you on driving 50 miles. Just think it was ocean. And if she was bloody, “plenty of (hungry) fish in the sea.” Sick interpretation of quote. She could have found another man. There are plenty of fish in the sea, as the saying goes.. but in the end, the fish in the sea that she caught, may have eaten her. Euk.

I live in Connecticut and actually Ct. coast line is on Long Island Sound not the open Atlantic Ocean. Strong currents in and out to the Atlantic. Most of the coast is also private beaches. It would be hard, I think to put a body into the sound from the shore and have it stay gone. Because of the currants it would probably wash ashore pretty quickly, especially since NC is so far up the sound, not near the ocean.

 

[SuperTmo]

Do any of you think that maybe it was JD making the noise in that trash container early in the a.m. when the neighbors' dogs were barking? As in maybe she was still alive, had become conscious and started kicking the sides of the dumpster to attract attention?
It makes me sick to think that might be the case.
I've been thinking this since I heard about the banging noise report.
MOO

Was that ever proven to have happened? The one neighbor saying it when it first came out said he heard it second hand from his dog sitter. Did anyone else ever come forward? And was it ever proven to be related? Just curious. If so your theory = possibly spot on.

 

[RoosterRock]

I looked at Connecticut map last night. If he drove to Hartford, he certainly could have driven to the ocean. I’m with you on driving 50 miles. Just think it was ocean. And if she was bloody, “plenty of (hungry) fish in the sea.” Sick interpretation of quote. She could have found another man. There are plenty of fish in the sea, as the saying goes.. but in the end, the fish in the sea that she caught, may have eaten her. Euk.

IMO
Too many witnesses in the ocean...Long Island Sound busy, too far to open ocean with too many witnesses. much better odds in rural parts of CT and NY all not too far from his drives. Water would be lakes, rivers ponds. He is familiar with lots with his waterskiing hobby....Burying there are so many options. We are not sure if body was disposed of intact, Could Be in multiple places.... very hard to locate without some type of clue/help - MT needs to speak......come clean...or get FD to crack.....IMO

 

[SuperTmo]

Or it is someone agreeable to both parties and the Court such as the Nanny.

JMO

This is usually the most common form of supervised visits. It makes it easier to facilitate because they aren’t working around a professional’s schedule and makes for a more normal interaction for the poor kids. Most people of normal financial means can’t afford the cost of paying for professional supervision, so this also eliminates that barrier. That wasn’t an issue here. I wish they had professionals.

After my ex screwed up his supervised visits he eventually was only allowed time with our daughter in the office of the court appointed reunification specialist. It takes a lot of crazy to get to that point.

 

[Midwestmom2019]

Was that ever proven to have happened? The one neighbor saying it when it first came out said he heard it second hand from his dog sitter. Did anyone else ever come forward? And was it ever proven to be related? Just curious. If so your theory = possibly spot on.

Just wish there was more about this. I would think LE investigated the inside of trash container after information was received about the dogs barking and banging noises. Banging on the walls of the trash container would sound different than banging on the rim of a steel drum. But in either case, who was banging? What was being banged on? Was there evidence of crime or anything of interest in the container? Unanswered questions that could lead to discovery of her body. Divorce proceedings have little to do with finding her body IMO.

 

[Curious in CT]

The NERVE of this man. So JD's parents are also being charged by
bank because they co-signed for his home in Farmington at JC and
this loon was living there with his golddigger gf, free of charge and
maintains his office there. No wonder he has it listed at twice the appraised value. HAH.

What a slimy mess he made coming into this family. It's like they invited the devil into their lives.

And such a shame that after living for 85 years GF has to contend with fighting this battle on her own. I feel for her.

All of this on top of the likelihood that JD's trust fund was financing FD's lifestyle - beyond the business loans. I do hope a financial forensics unit is scouring every filthy corner of this leech's transactions, assets, etc. My fervent hope is that after living high on the unearned hog for so many years, he lives out the remainder of his days with no possessions aside from a jumpsuit and soap on the rope. (Sorry...the more I know, the more I feel like I almost wish I knew knew less.)

 

[afitzy]

These men are very very shallow emotionally and fail to
develop much emotional maturity. Typical Man-Child.

Thanks for the feedback!

To piggy back off of your comments in your OP, FD as only male, youngest child of much older sister AND in a traditional patriarchical society where males are primary, got a full dose of all the impacts of these facts IMO. There is little to no reason for people with this situation growing up to ever change IMO. Some probably do change and develop emotionally but many don't IMO.

Even in our modern U.S. society these kinds of issues can play a role when people raised in another much more traditional culture seem to function well here in the US on the surface of things. I truly wonder if JD knew what she was in for as her experience growing up in NYC no doubt was very far away from the traditional world and structure/roles of FD?

As others have reported here its possible that the initial 'charm offensive' of FD might have made him seem modern and a viable participatory life partner but my guess is that the 'old world/traditional' FD emerged once the children arrived in rapid succession.

JD must not have known what hit her as she most likely experienced a partner that in US terminology was a throwback to the 1940s/50s traditional male and quite possibly very different from the person she knew from college or even when they were dating. If you layer the potential culture/birth order issues into the Cycle of Domestic Violence circle model then on a 'good day' JD certainly had her hands full IMO. MOO!