Oh, no worries! It’s fine! I can quite understand what you mean about the two poles of good and evil, and how it is that we don’t have anything positive to say about FD and MT. Absolutely, there is good in everyone somewhere, somehow; speaking only for myself, of course, it is the terrible unfairness of JD being gone while FD and MT are not just still here but also seem to be throwing that in our faces that makes it seem, at times when it looks like one or both of them have skated by with seemingly no repercussions while JD is gone and her kids and those who loved her are mourning her absence and what looks like—feels like—injustice after injustice. I definitely believe LE and justice will prevail but the wait is hard and worse at times like today when it seems like once again, “the bad guys won.” My post was my way of screaming into the abyss that JD prevailed in at least the sense that she has not been erased or minimized in our memories; your feelings and reactions are yours and of course just as valid. Rather like some people refer to nonalcoholic, carbonated beverages as soda, others say pop, and my southern relatives just call it all Coke, we’re all just putting our individual words to a shared sadness. In the end, I don’t think anyone can win; I just can’t bear for it to feel like JD has lost anything else when she’s already lost what seems, based on all we’ve heard about her, to have meant the most to her, life with her children. We’re all grieving here whether we knew JD or not, and I’m just glad we’re all here to stand and do what we can for her—and each other. I meant it when I said I was sorry if what I had written had upset you and I very much appreciate your kind and thoughtful words here. Thank you so much and thank you to everyone else here for bringing and sharing your light to the dark. Take care and thanks again to you and all for being here, literally and figuratively. I apologize that this is so long and that I am now too lazy to edit it and need to get on with this day!
