Deceased/Not Found CT - Jennifer Dulos, 50, New Canaan, 24 May 2019 *ARRESTS* #37

[oceancalling]

Hello Friends...I follow a FB site about true crime (of course I do, lol!). There is a member there who has collected most, if not all, of Jennifer's writing on The Patch (and other places). I am hoping this is okay to post; because in my mind - it states VOLUMES about FD...it is truly heartbreaking to read...

In a post written by Jennifer Dulos called “Take me home, country road”, she describes Fotis relationship with Andreas Toutziaridis who is listed in the warrant.

“He goes to Greece on Tuesday for a week, partially for business, and partially to reconnect with his friends there. Chiefly his best friend: Andreas. Right now our wedding ring is being worn on a modern necklace of a Christ on the cross that Andreas gave to him, right next to Jesus. (His knuckle is swollen.) He says it does not fit anymore. So there I am, on a symbol of friendship with Andreas, right next to the Son of God, around his neck, but now actually next to the sink, while he works out.

Before we got married he told me that his friends mean everything to him. That there is nothing he would not do for a friend. That they rank even above his own family.”

Wow!

 

[NCmom99]

And five makes seven...

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Ah, these I haven't read before, thank you. So nice that her children will always have these writings of hers - her love for them shines through so clearly.

 

[NCmom99]

I know this is something so ridiculous to concern myself with in light of what happened to JFd but it really has been bothering me that JFd and her Nanny put food out for FD's picnic on 5/22. So FD "suddenly" remembered Grace Farms closed at 6PM and had to inconvenience JFd and then showed up early because he was confused and then did not provide the food. AW3 states the Nanny and JFd put the food out and then made sure the mudroom door was locked so FD could not enter. From what I can see on the website Grace Farms does not allow outside food and they serve light lunch 11AM-3PM Tuesday through Saturday with snacks until 5PM. The Visitation time was 4:30PM to 7:30PM. How was FD going to have a picnic at Grace Farms, with snacks? Was he not intending on feeding his children dinner? Even the little things like this point to FD using this date to scope out the house. MOO IMO.

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I was assuming that maybe he showed up with a couple of shopping bags of sandwiches and drinks or something that he had picked up and asked them to hold stuff in the fridge for a while. But perhaps that is giving too much credit.

 

[NCmom99]

I know this is something so ridiculous to concern myself with in light of what happened to JFd but it really has been bothering me that JFd and her Nanny put food out for FD's picnic on 5/22. So FD "suddenly" remembered Grace Farms closed at 6PM and had to inconvenience JFd and then showed up early because he was confused and then did not provide the food. AW3 states the Nanny and JFd put the food out and then made sure the mudroom door was locked so FD could not enter. From what I can see on the website Grace Farms does not allow outside food and they serve light lunch 11AM-3PM Tuesday through Saturday with snacks until 5PM. The Visitation time was 4:30PM to 7:30PM. How was FD going to have a picnic at Grace Farms, with snacks? Was he not intending on feeding his children dinner? Even the little things like this point to FD using this date to scope out the house. MOO IMO.

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I was assuming that maybe he showed up with a couple of shopping bags of sandwiches and drinks or something that he had picked up and asked them to hold stuff in the fridge for a while. But perhaps that is giving too much credit.

They must have witnessed it.
But they may have been psyched that Daddy was coming.
Would she disappoint them?

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Exactly. Once again she took the high road (with whatever precautions she could control after being ambushed) thinking she was overall doing what was best for her kids.

 

[NCmom99]

And a second one...to add to the group that speaks of JFd's hopes for their relationship:


Why do I always feel like a failure along these lines? We did go to Miami for New Year's, I did water ski with him for a couple of days. But once back, the move looming, the kids back in school, and now showing Yorgos what to do, I am a bit overwhelmed and outstretched, and it's him whom I shortchange first. I won't stay up watching a movie I don't care about if it means that I will be a walking, sleep-deprived zombie the next day. I don't do anything spontaneous and "fun" during the school week, for fear of losing tight controls on the moving machinery of our daily routine. I do schedule dinners with other couples we like, and tonight I am getting a babysitter so we can go out and see a movie together, and spend that time. I know it's not enough, and it feels measly to me too. I am hoping that after the move, that there will be some breathing space, and levity all around, but I know that the moment of change is always in the present moment, what you choose to do right now. And that a smile, a warm embrace, a moment to listen, to breathe with the other person, goes a long way to creating an overall more loving atmosphere, no matter how little time there can sometimes be for just the two of us. Together, alone. To make the small interactions count more. Or just to have a language around the fact that, gosh, this is a really busy time and I don't see you that much right now, and it's hard and no fun and I miss you and I miss feeling less tense and I miss us just kicking back together and feeling more freedom to indulge in pure, clear time with you.

Hey, HB, If you are reading this, I do. Really. Miss. You.

***This is a great snip to show the strength of her character and humility and kindness! Unfortunately she could have given and given and given and it would never have been enough for him IMO

 

[Jmoose]

Quick Snip from the "Journal of Jennifer"...March 24, 2012...
Just fun and play for FD...while JFd was alone with the kids; getting the "boiler" in the house fixed...such BS...Justice for Jennifer!

I just spoke with Fotis who is very pumped or just “up” about new business prospects, and running around Athens trying to make something happen. It’s good to see/hear him excited about something again. He will also try to waterski this weekend in Halkida with his friends Yannis and Katerina. It looks like he’ll be back here on Tuesday, and drive his car down to Florida on Friday over the weekend. To have it there to ski there as much as possible during April and May.

Glasco...Glasco...isn’t that one of the companies with a lien against one or more of the Fore Group properties? I guess he serviced all of the houses. Someone, or more than one person, said that they wondered if any of Fd’s subcontractors would claim to be owed a lot of money for work they did, and wondered if Glasco was one of them. I wonder if Jason or whatever his name is, was close with Fd.

 

[Jmoose]

BBM. This is happening in family courts across America...NO CONSEQUENCES for violating court orders. It is a form of emotional abuse and it is inexcusable.

JMO

I know it happens, and it sickens me that people (predominantly women) have to go through this.

 

[Southernsnooper]

And five makes seven...

Forewarning:

What you will read is beyond heartbreaking!!!!

I wish that every juror could read every single post to really get a true sense of these people and the situation.

No shades of gray, it is in black and white.

Jennifer was amazing, selfless, strong, smart, sweet, kind, generous, patient, loving and BRAVE.

Fotis is the exact opposite and much, much worse.

I know in my heart that justice will be served. Her last minutes of her life served to leave a trail of evidence as she fought the fight of her life.

I know that it was meant to be swift and seamless but Jennifer would not allow that to happen. She is a true hero for her children, a true Mama bear.

Fotis will get everything coming to him and more.

He may have planned for the perfect murder but a stronger person denied him of that... he failed and failure is not in his vocabulary.

In truth, Fotis failed at everything.... marriage, fathering, the FORE group.

FOREver the biggest loser in this game of life.

Smart-not.... Loser-yes!

Moooooooo

 

[GoodWins1]

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Ah, these I haven't read before, thank you. So nice that her children will always have these writings of hers - her love for them shines through so clearly.

You’re so right. These blogs are so special and I feel like maybe she felt in her spirit that she needs to tell them this because she won’t be around. This was her way of telling them how much she loved and CARED for them. By all accounts she seemed like a great mother. She did it all. They were her #1. She seemed like a dream wife and mother. Such a shame she was conned by the most undeserving, selfish, evil, narcissist. Actually the more I see his face lately the more I see the MONSTER that he is. His inner rotten soul shows through very clearly. I doubt he did anything to care for those kids besides forcing them to practice a hobby HE loved. He had a beautiful wife who let him live his life and it still wasn’t enough. I pray he rots in prison and never sees light of day again. Too bad CT doesn’t have DP because the only way I feel he’d get what he deserves is to cut off his oxygen supply. Same wishes for his shameless sleaze who comes from a rotten family herself.

 

[Curious in CT]

Mom of Connecticut infant found frozen to death in 1988 won't be charged, police say

Jesus.

 

[Curious in CT]

Good bio of Kent Mawhinney by Fox61:
Kent Mawhinney’s public and private lives tell different stories

My goodness.... this article is written as horribly as a certain ponytail attorney's briefs.

 

[CTGrammy]

Awful man. Kleopatra was the first name of his mother "Mama Dulos" that was run over.
Jennifer was trying to have a nice and normal life, and was sweet to suggest the name of his mother.

Fotis Dulos’ mother died in freak driveway accident years before Connecticut wife Jennifer Dulos went missing

Hi @Boxer. So glad to have you here.

You may have misunderstood. Fd was Insisting that the child have his mother's name of Kleopatra/Cleopatra. He was not going to have anything to do with the child if her first name was Noelle. So, Jennifer gave in and named her Cleopatra Noelle and called her Cleo-Noelle for short. As recent Court Documents have stated, she is currently being called Noelle. In the Greek society, children are named after their Grandparents and although the death of Fd's mother is 'suspect', he still Insisted that the child be named Cleopatra.

IMO.

 

[JillR]

Is the hunting club close to the homes? Can anyone shed light on where/how far/mileage the hunting club property is located? Thank YOU!

 

[JillR]

Farmington to hunting club 26 minutes by car.

 

[sds71]

Is the hunting club close to the homes? Can anyone shed light on where/how far/mileage the hunting club property is located? Thank YOU!

I think it’s it’s about 90 mins to JDs
and 15 mins to KMs ex

 

[citygirl]

Hi @Boxer. So glad to have you here.

You may have misunderstood. Fd was Insisting that the child have his mother's name of Kleopatra/Cleopatra. He was not going to have anything to do with the child if her first name was Noelle. So, Jennifer gave in and named her Cleopatra Noelle and called her Cleo-Noelle for short. As recent Court Documents have stated, she is currently being called Noelle. In the Greek society, children are named after their Grandparents and although the death of Fd's mother is 'suspect', he still Insisted that the child be named Cleopatra.

IMO.

Thanks for elucidating this.
All this time I thought it was the direct opposite.

 

[CTGrammy]

Hi @Boxer. So glad to have you here.

You may have misunderstood. Fd was Insisting that the child have his mother's name of Kleopatra/Cleopatra. He was not going to have anything to do with the child if her first name was Noelle. So, Jennifer gave in and named her Cleopatra Noelle and called her Cleo-Noelle for short. As recent Court Documents have stated, she is currently being called Noelle. In the Greek society, children are named after their Grandparents and although the death of Fd's mother is 'suspect', he still Insisted that the child be named Cleopatra.

IMO.

FYI,

Fd's mother died before her namesake was born.

Fd's sister also named one of her daughters Kleopatra.

Like I said, it is a Greek thing. Other cultures do it to some degree, but it is the End of the World if a Greek person skips out on following the namesake expectation.

Fd was named after his grandfather and JFd's older twin was named after Fd's father.

It just goes round and round.

IMO.

 

[afitzy]

Shouldn’t KM’s wife attorney- as an officer of the court have notified police or a Judge that KM was using FD to get around the protection order. He knew she was going to meet with him.
I wish a reporter would ask the Divorce Shark why he didn’t.

Interesting question.

But we have the evidence from the Fox61 news report in their interview with So. Windsor PD when the guy with the crowbar and gan showed up and they made no arrest - the issue is classified as 'unresolved'.

I agree the Fd encounter should have been reported immediately but my guess based on what we have seen from So. Windsor is PD with KM STBX so far, I wonder if they would have even come out to the house to take the report?

Is KM impacting the treatment of KM STBX by So Windsor PD? Seems possible IMO based on what we have seen!

We also saw what the Family Court Judge did with the info (nothing to protect KM STBX so far as I can tell) and its also unclear if CSP have done anything to protect KM STBX.

MOO

 

[sds71]

Where are the new Jennifer Dulos blog posts coming from?
They aren’t on Patch or her five equals seven blog

 

[sds71]

Interesting question.
But we have the evidence from the Fox61 news report in their interview with So. Windsor PD when the guy with the crowbar and gan showed up and they made no arrest - the issue is classified as 'unresolved'.
I agree the Fd encounter should have been reported immediately but my guess based on what we have seen from So. Windsor is PD with KM STBX so far, I wonder if they would have even come out to the house to take the report?
Is KM impacting the treatment of KM STBX by So Windsor PD? Seems possible IMO based on what we have seen!
We also saw what the Family Court Judge did with the info (nothing to protect KM STBX so far as I can tell) and its also unclear if CSP have done anything to protect KM STBX.
MOO

She told him about the meeting before she went
He could’ve reported the violation it to the Judge.