The Courant has obtained monthd of court monitors report from the Dulos case including May 22 when Fotis Dulos visited his wife’s New Canaan home. Two days later she was gone:
At around 5 p.m., Dulos and the children left to go to nearby Grace Farms. The privately run park was a favorite spot for Dulos. The farm has an underground basketball court that he often rented for the children when their visits took place in New Canaan. Over the 18-month period from the divorce filing, several of the visits were at a state park in Shelton and on a few occasions Dulos rented a place called the ZEN House in Stamford.
When Grace Farms closed, the group returned to Jennifer’s house on Welles Lane. They sat at a table outside, and ate the salads and bread that Dulos had brought with him from Avon, playing a game of “Would You Rather” as they ate, according to the monitor’s report. After the kids ate some of the chocolate cake Dulos and some of the children cleaned the table and “put away the food and cake.”
In her notes, the monitor doesn’t specify what “putting away” means, though the prosecution — in building a case against Dulos — said the DNA from Dulos was evidence he was there the day of the attack. The monitor for the May 22 visit wasn’t Dennis Puebla, who had supervised the majority of visits over the previous 18 months, but a substitute, Sidnee Streater, who would later become a key witness for state police.
Stamford State’s Attorney Richard Colangelo, recently named chief state’s attorney, has said in court that Dulos did not go into the house on May 22 based on witness statements, including Streater’s and the children’s nanny, Lauren Almeida, who was present for parts of the May 22 visit.
It was a key point for the state because Colangelo said Dulos’ DNA was found mixed with his estranged wife’s on the kitchen faucet. His DNA also was found on the inside door knob of the mudroom door which leads into the garage area.
As Dulos and the children were finishing dinner in the backyard it is unclear how long Farber Dulos was at the house. At some point, the couple’s youngest child, who had not been present for most of the visit, returned and had cake with her siblings. Streater noted at 7:07 p.m. that Jennifer “came outside and prepared” one of the boys to leave for lacrosse practice. After she left, Dulos and the other children started playing basketball again.
The game lasted until 7:37 p.m. when Jennifer told the children it was time for them to come inside and take showers and finish their homework.
After hugging their father, the children went inside.
Dave Altimari and the Hartford Courant have been in NP's "corner" throughout this revelation of spousal abuse and murder since the beginning. DA doesn't do research, IMO, it appears he simply writes stories about the information NP GIVES him. Altimari might as well be paid as assistant defense attorney. I'm disgusted that he chose to write about this visit in an effort to normalize Fd for NP.
He did, however, also show that JFd wasn't a drugged out mother who was incapable of parenting as Fd tried to depict her. She was a concerned mother who conducted the daily lives of her children including providing entertainment at home, a schedule for homework and sleep, a chauffeur for sports practices, and a center around which the kids had stability in their lives. She wasn't antagonistic toward Fd in front of the children. She remained flexible to Fd's changing schedules and impetuous demands...here's a cake and dinner...serve us. JFd was focused on the well-being of her children. Fd was the clown who bounced in for good times and was gone.
Fd's family needs to recognize the sacrifice and restraint JFd had for the kids and quit trying to paint a halo on Fd. Fd was the sixth child who never grew up, IMO...MOO.