Silver Alert CT- Jennifer Dulos, 50, New Canaan, 24 May 2019

[Deleted member 121463]

We will see if these assuptions about STBX prove to be correct. But what I always find fascinating is that when the masks are taken off of bullies (we saw this in the Watts case) that many of them simply crumble and fall apart. This is a bit off topic (sorry in advance) but I am also always fascinated how so many of these characters have GFs in in the wings (again we saw this in the Watts case). Reading the court documents about how STBX actually started a discussion with JD about moving his mistress and her daughter into their family home is something that hits a whole new level of delusional behavior in my mind. I kept reading the same paragraph in the documents over and over and I still found it stunning. WHO IS THE STBX person? I realize there are two sides to every story but after I read about the mistress moving in story I almost felt like there wasn't much more to know as it said so much about him and all SO MUCH about the mistress. This happened in a family with five children under the age of 10 at that point. I truly wonder if STBX has the capacity to connect or care about the children or anyone else for that matter. I also wonder if the court sought to obtain a psych exam of STBX as part of the proceedings and if this document is one of the sealed ones amongst the 500? Its a mind twister to me to understand having 5 children under 10 and being embroiled with a character like STBX.

He sees the wife and children as his property, and 'loves' the children, as they are an extension of himself. JMO

 

[Rosiebones]

I was hoping for arrests by now

I wonder if they are trying to turn someone because they need the testimony.

 

[citygirl]

The court put the kibosh on the greek passports for the children process (this discussion was in the document where JD talks about how STBX scheduled a trip for all the children to go to Greece and purchased tickets for them all to go except he didn't invite/include JD.) This was a fairly shocking portion of testimony IMO, especially since her money most likely paid for the trip. It was unclear whether the trip with the children and STBX ever took place but I will keep reading!

JD's friends pushing to make the missing report on the day it looks like JD disappeared could make all the difference in this case IMO. We've seen so many cases where delays in reporting the missing person make it virtually impossible for the police to ever recover the trail. The nanny also was a major hero in this case as she seemed aware enough of the situation that she took the children to the grandmother and not the STBX.

I think they all knew what her life was like, thus quick action by PD.

 

[Deleted member 121463]

Is everyone on the Facebook page? What are they saying over there? I hate Facebook, but the comments are good

 

[citygirl]

not sure but he was awarded a Masters in Finance in 1997 from Columbia.

My question is after all these wonderful qualifications he became a builder. Not dissing on builders. Just sayin'.

 

[isabella88]

My question is after all these wonderful qualifications he became a builder. Not dissing on builders. Just sayin'.

$$$$$$$$$

 

[Sconnie]

I haven't posted yet, but have been following along. I am wondering if there is a discrepancy in the reported ages of the children. In her blog she states the little one will be two in 2012, which would make her seven, going on eight. Not that it matters at all, it's just something that I noticed...

Hoping she is found soon. I just can't imagine what it is like for the children and grandmother, and I hope there is no way he can regain custody until it is determined what happened.

 

[isabella88]

First time, long time, btw ... I've lived in several places in CT. After living in CA, it's amazing sometimes how small CT is.

 

[kay74]

not sure but he was awarded a Masters in Finance in 1997 from Columbia.

hahaha and THAT helped him! Must have forgot what he was taught.

 

[kay74]

First time, long time, btw ... I've lived in several places in CT. After living in CA, it's amazing sometimes how small CT is.

Two expensive places CT. and Ca.

 

[littlegreen]

My question is after all these wonderful qualifications he became a builder. Not dissing on builders. Just sayin'.

I have a masters degree from Yale and I bet building would be better money than any other work I’m presently qualified for.

 

[kay74]

All really good points. Perhaps she was attracted to him because he wasn't your typical preppy boy from some New England prep school? He didn't fit the mold. He was handsome, rugged, strong kinda can do guy. Strong and protective and athletic. Then he went on to Columbia, so he was no dummy. He had the credentials. She had five children with him so she must have been smitten for a time. Youngest is six? She left 2 years ago? Maybe it dawned on her after the last baby came? 2013 baby? When did she stop blogging?
Can't wait for her friends to eventually speak.
I have no doubt FD was an old school Daddy.
MOO.

So she was 44 when she had her last child. She started having her family late.

 

[isabella88]

Two expensive places CT. and Ca.

Indeed! Part of why I don't live in either state any longer. Never lived in the ritzy parts of CT, but did work in New Canaan for a while. I grew up just north of Hartford. Interesting place, CT. Many loved ones there!

 

[enelram]

My question is after all these wonderful qualifications he became a builder. Not dissing on builders. Just sayin'.

My guess is he was tired of sitting at a desk in the corporate world.
It does get boring for a dynamic go getter like FD, plus he wasn't setting the world on fire so according to him, he assisted a builder
in getting financing and learned a lot about the process.
Also this may have been about the time he had his sights set on
using some of JD's family's money. For him, it was a match made in heaven. New builders have a hard time getting started with no
experience, no history, no clients, inability to get financing.
I think he started out building smaller, spec houses and using
Farber financing. And it grew from there.
He just didn't have the scruples to maintain the family relationship. And eventually his dishonesty with the family
made the whole thing crumble. The Peter Principle at play here.

 

[kay74]

I have a masters degree from Yale and I bet building would be better money than any other work I’m presently qualified for.

I know many people in business who have no degrees! They do have common sense and ethics. I should say all kinds of businesses not building.

 

[sds71]

Source tells
@FOX61News
that #JenniferDulos' estranged husband Fotis Dulos surrendered to give a buccal swab for DNA last night.

 

[cass523]

Police take DNA swab from missing woman’s estranged husband

State Police collected DNA from Jennifer Dulos’ estranged husband Fotis Dulos on Friday, a source told FOX61 Saturday.

New Canaan police confirmed their criminal investigation “does involve securing search warrants.” The department would not go into detail about what items are listed on the search warrants.

A source told FOX61 that one warrant was a body warrant, another will give police access to Dulos’ Jefferson Crossing home.

Dulos was seen driving away from his Farmington home in the middle of a State Police motorcade Friday evening. A source said that motorcade was taking Dulos to execute the body warrant. A buccal swab of DNA from Dulos’ cheek was taken, as well has a hair sample, the source told FOX61. We’re told an attorney was present during the procedure and no questioning took place.

The Hartford Courant was first to report about the warrants, citing sources.

 

[modesty blaise]

My question is after all these wonderful qualifications he became a builder. Not dissing on builders. Just sayin'.

He sells the houses for millions.

 

[TexLil]

Source tells
@FOX61News
that #JenniferDulos' estranged husband Fotis Dulos surrendered to give a buccal swab for DNA last night.

Does this mean LE has DNA from possible crime scene they are trying to match? At her home where there was blood? From here car? Other? For future use after Jennifer is found? MOO

 

[doodles1211]

Husband of Missing Mother Jennifer Dulos Questioned by Police

https://videos.dailymail.co.uk/vide...270845011/640x360_MP4_6294837601270845011.mp4

Anyone thinking new gf looks a lot like Jennifer?