Because this judge has seen many parenting arguments and games played with his experience,I trust that the judge and DCF are 3 steps ahead of MS and his legal team in the game of chess. The judge probably already knows exactly the ruling he will render once MS makes his next parenting mistake. He just has to wait for MS's next move. Then the girls will see clues why their future calls/visits will be monitored. Hopefully then the blame wont be assumed to be the judges or MAG's fault in their eyes. I am guessing it's got to be a choreographed strategy to sway the girls slowly into appreciating TS's family
But-but-but- we've already seen the damage MS has done on the girls from day 1, they don't think he's done anything wrong, they've been programed to believe their father is in jail because of "other" people.
He is NEVER going to admit to them that he was the one that had their mother murdered, they know NOTHING else.
Having jail visits will only reinforce that brainwashing further. "See we get to see our daddy now" AND "we get to talk to him on the phone and he tells us how to be safe from those evil people that put our Daddy in jail".
They CANNOT fathom their Daddy did that, because Daddy says Jesus is watching over us and WE always tell the truth.
NO matter how much treatment they get, they CANNOT be made to believe that Daddy did that to Mommy.
He had them too long before he was arrested, can we imagine all those LONG talks he had with them? I can. The "I love you and you know I would NEVER hurt you or Mommy" and on and on and....
I believe they will grow up to be adults that feel wrong was done to Daddy.
He was the fun guy that let us do ALL kinds of fun stuff when Mommy was at work, remember girls? I never let you down , even after Mommy was dead, we still did all those fun thing.
Talk about children paying the price for a parents evil, this one tops it!!
They've already expressed they don't want to be where they're at now, this will only make it worse for them on any possible recovery. Unless they are sat down and given the REAL truth, one word at a time and the whole story, but even then, NO ONE CAN MAKE A CHILD BELIEVE SOMETHING LIKE THAT, if a person they LOVE has told them different. Sorry to sound like a downer.
I once knew (35 years ago) a 4 year old child that was set on top of a hot red stove burner by her mother and placed into foster care, and that child screamed for hours every night for her mother. Just an example of a childs brain function. At that time I had 2 foster babies , brothers, 6 months old and 18 months old and cried for their drug addicted mother that left them alone every night,by themselves in the same crib with 2 other brothers from the time the 6 month old was born. They loved to go on their weekly visits with Mom, because she fed them candy. This is the mind and heart of children and dcf and the judge should know better. Some my opinion , some not (fact).
