Dede defends Terri - People Magazine

[M-pathetic]

We have no way of knowing that...what we saw was probably part of one e-mail. She could have been writing back and forth to this person and others, about Kyron, for all we know.

That's just it; we do know!TH wrote for DAYS to the whole WORLD (wide web). Many of us saw every word from her own "pen"...all the inflections, emoticons, punctuation, emotion (or the lack thereof). IMOO THIS POINT separates so many of us from those whose backsides are fence-sore. The last thing I ever wanted to believe was that Kyron's "second mom"... (CAN'T FINISH IT!!!!)

WHERE ARE YOU, SWEET KYRON???????????????

:cry:

 

[debs]

If I did have them, I'd bet you'd be my very best friend.

I'd be more reasonable with statements about whether she said anything about missing Kyron, for sure.

 

[kimmera]

July 29, 2010 -- Updated 0918 GMT (1718 HKT)

He added that Spicher is not speaking to Terri Horman.


http://edition.cnn.com/2010/CRIME/0...html?eref=rss_crime#fbid=9CN-1tfekZ_&wom=true

Hmmm...well, I don't really understand why someone would go out of their way to give a glowing interview about their good and 'innocent' friend and then stop speaking to them when the chips are really down??? My guess would be that Dede has realized that she was USED by TMH and is now in a world of poop, but won't give her up because she will be seen as complicit in this. Either that or she has been online and seen some of the OUTRAGED reactions that people have posted about that not-so-cute smirk on her face after she left the GJ, looking like she just swallowed a whole pet shop full of canaries.

I am not buying this at all...:furious: JMO.

 

[pufnstuf]

I hadn't seen where a co-worker searched the entire farm for her. Could we have the link for that please?

TIA

If I had said that he searched the entire farm, I'd be more than happy to provide a link. But I didn't say that he searched the entire farm. I said that he couldn't find her anywhere on the farm.

 

[M-pathetic]

From Terri's comments before her page went private, almost all of it was about Kyron and flyers and searches, etc. 2-3 comments stuck out as "inappropriate" from those first days, but overwhelmingly, she was replying to messages of support and prayers from friends. For what it is worth.

WOW...what we gleaned from early TH posts couldn't be more contradictory. Gives a whole new meaning to "open to interpretation!" Somebody said it earlier in this thread--gotta love WS for just that reason. I appreciate your posts, "Clu"!

 

[debs]

How does one find someone they don't search for? (Scratchy head icon here)

 

[Jo in Calif]

I'd be more reasonable with statements about whether she said anything about missing Kyron, for sure.

No kidding.

 

[i.b.nora]

How do we know the co-worker was a he?

 

[BeanE]

If I had said that he searched the entire farm, I'd be more than happy to provide a link. But I didn't say that he searched the entire farm. I said that he couldn't find her anywhere on the farm. If he had found her, she wouldn't have been missing, would she?

He couldn't find her anywhere on the farm, but he didn't search the entire farm? :waitasec:

Okay, could we have a link for him not being able to find her anywhere on the farm?

TIA

 

[Emma Peel]

How does one find someone they don't search for? (Scratchy head icon here)

here. :waitasec:

don't feed him any denorex or he won't work.

 

[For The Kids]

BBM With all due respect IMO LE and the bio Parents have forced these 2 women to defend themselves. Most of the PC's were about these 2 woman and very very little about Kyron. Most of the stories in the Press are about these 2 women and the divorce, once again very little about Kryon.

Once again I pray that LE has a-lot more evidence then what we are seeing against these 2 women because if they don't then I fear that justice for Kryon will never happen. All IMO.

Then again..maybe the parents of this lovely little boy felt they had no choice but to say what they did if they ever wanted to find there son.

 

[cluciano63]

WOW...what we gleaned from early TH posts couldn't be more contradictory. Gives a whole new meaning to "open to interpretation!" Somebody said it earlier in this thread--gotta love WS for just that reason. I appreciate your posts, "Clu"!

I said she responded to posts about searches and prayers...did not say she instigated them or give my stamp of approval for what she was writing.

Just stating what I saw those first 3-4 days...in fact, the three "weird" posts I recall kind of stood out among the "mundane" ones. And believe me, I noticed them and took note.

I am only on the so-called fence because the only proof I've seen is of her "poor character." Lots and lots of people are of poor character in this world, we are lucky they aren't all criminals.

 

[nurseratchett]

I said she responded to posts about searches and prayers...did not say she instigated them or give my stamp of approval for what she was writing.

Just stating what I saw those first 3-4 days...in fact, the three "weird" posts I recall kind of stood out among the "mundane" ones. And believe me, I noticed them and took note.

I am only on the so-called fence because the only proof I've seen is of her "poor character." Lots and lots of people are of poor character in this world, we are lucky they aren't all criminals.

But out of those lots and lots with poor character,

How many were likely the last one seen with a missing 7 year old?

How many gave misleading info about an MD appt. to a teacher?

How many whose stories and timelines do not match what they told LE they did during said time period?

How many have failed at least 2 polygraphs and walked out on a third?

How many have hired a criminal defense attorney for 350 thousand dollars?

How many sent emails less than 24 hours after their stepson is missing whining about the blogs pointing at her?

How many started up a full on sexting and graphic image fest party with their husbands high school friend?

How many attempted to hire a hitman to kill their husband?

How many were worried about what the press might be saying about her the day after her step son went m issing?

I could go on and on, but the point is, when the molehilll turns into a mountain, it's not because of wishful thinking. It has to be built on something solid. Not just hot air....

 

[Morag]

Our property is not quite as large as the property being discussed...it's actually about 1/38th the size, in fact.

Sometimes when my DH is out gardening, or landscaping, or just mooching around sniffing the air, he has a phone call. Sometimes I can find him, sometimes I can't.

Too many hills, vales, granite outcroppings, pine groves, cherry trees, vernal pools, outbuildings, and general nooks and crannies. I call (using my outdoor voice), I ring a bell, I give up. If we had 38 acres, no way could I locate him, maybe not even via cellphone. We have dead zones here and there, both inside and out- New England granite is not your cell phone's friend.

So for Dede to not be found, no big deal. I mean, how hard were they gonna look? If she didn't want her share of the lunch, no BFD.
It's not as though her absence from the lunch table was dangerous or tragic. I'll bet they didn't look too hard.

Maybe she was taking a nap (cooping) or having a little refreshment of another kind.

 

[Littleone48]

Then again..maybe the parents of this lovely little boy felt they had no choice but to say what they did if they ever wanted to find there son.

May I ask what this has to do with my post? I was not saying anything about the parents or why they said the things they said. What I was stating is that early on in the investigation Terri has been the focus, and now Dede joins her. No matter what these woman do or say people just will never be happy. She was asked questions, she answered. They are all over the news and flyers, we know about a divorce, sextating, MFH, where Dede works, old boyfriends and in the end none of this has anything to do with finding out what happened to Kryon. IMO these 2 woman are not the only ones who have forgotten to mention Kryon.

 

[krowdkat]

Possibly this interview is one way for DS to get the msg out to TH.....i.e. this is what she has told LE and she's standing firmly behind her original statement????


Sorry Krowdat....just saw that you posted this same thought....I should read thru the thread before I post!

No apology necessary, Blondie. Kudos. It felt good to have your thought validation and I knew you hadn't read my post, yet. These threads move so fast that I sometimes post when I read something and am moved to comment before reading through the entire thread. Also, sometimes I just don't have time to read everything. I try my best, though.

GMTA! and all that jazz! Kryon needs to come home!

You'd think that Dede could just send a letter to Terri via snail mail if she needed to communicate a point. It's illegal for anyone to open up someones mail. They could just flush the correspondence down the porcelain god when read, ala KC Anthony, if they are afraid of LE search warrants.

IMO, the only reason for Dede to give People Mag the interview is the garner the sympathy of the millions who read that mag and send smoke signals to TH. JMHO.

 

[Emma Peel]

A thought about Terri's non-emotive posts on FB:

IMO, Kaine was in command & control mode - he made it very clear to his whole team that less was more in terms of communication, and that any family communication would be determined & directed by Kaine HQ and done with approval of LE &/or corporate counsel. He even pissed off the press with here's "this is the party line, use it or lose it" approach.

Perhaps at that time she was following suit - the less said, the better - but she did what she could to stay in touch politely?

:couch: hey, it's just a thought.

 

[Etilema]

Hmmm...well, I don't really understand why someone would go out of their way to give a glowing interview about their good and 'innocent' friend and then stop speaking to them when the chips are really down??? My guess would be that Dede has realized that she was USED by TMH and is now in a world of poop, but won't give her up because she will be seen as complicit in this. Either that or she has been online and seen some of the OUTRAGED reactions that people have posted about that not-so-cute smirk on her face after she left the GJ, looking like she just swallowed a whole pet shop full of canaries.

I am not buying this at all...:furious: JMO.

Also, from the same article is this quote:

"Stavley declined to comment Monday on what Spicher was doing during those 90 minutes."

Why did he decline to comment, if she was simply working? Why couldn't he say, "She was gardening on the property where she was working?"

Wait a minute. DDS says, "I never left the property," but she never says what she was DOING on the property. After all, we have speculated that TH met her THERE...

Just speculating.

 

[Littleone48]

But out of those lots and lots with poor character,

How many were likely the last one seen with a missing 7 year old?

How many gave misleading info about an MD appt. to a teacher?

How many whose stories and timelines do not match what they told LE they did during said time period?

How many have failed at least 2 polygraphs and walked out on a third?
How many have hired a criminal defense attorney for 350 thousand dollars?

How many sent emails less than 24 hours after their stepson is missing whining about the blogs pointing at her?

How many started up a full on sexting and graphic image fest party with their husbands high school friend?

How many attempted to hire a hitman to kill their husband?

How many were worried about what the press might be saying about her the day after her step son went m issing?

I could go on and on, but the point is, when the molehilll turns into a mountain, it's not because of wishful thinking. It has to be built on something solid. Not just hot air....

BBM All of these are from "sources" and have not been stated by LE. I think I will wait until someone with a name states these are true.

ETA We can all say what we would do in a situation like this. I will tell you that I would be one that would be worried about what "people" would say about me. I am not sure if in this situation I would worry about that but by nature I am that type of person.

 

[Amster]

:waitasec: Why SHOULD Terri read here?

Comfort. DDS defending her....and a lot of support.