**ETA: marge, ye ask and ye shall receive..:floorlaugh: just read your post and decided to dedicate this loooooooong post just to you for asking for it..lol..

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Thanks to Pensfan and kakidoll for both reminding me of the eye movements that were glaringly apparent in the video from my ^above^ post.. It's another issue I'd intended on commenting about in my ^above^ post but I got waaaaaay long winded with that post.. So, I knew I had to stop before it reached the character max per post..lol.. So, again thanks for reminding me of this other IMO important detail of the 7+min video..
Jeremy's eyes by far are the most obvious IMO!!!! Thru several mins of the video I just soley was focused on his eyes and where they were cutting, darting, and focusing.. During a part of the video where he was speaking.. But even more telling IMO were his eye movements when he WASN'T speaking!!*
If I were to strictly go on gut instinct and intuition alone in basing my opinion of what Jeremy's eye movements indicate I would have to say that I feel he is without hope almost it seems in recovering Lisa and that there is an overwhelming amount of suspicion he has for his only daughter's mother!!!
This is so very blatant and obvious by everything in this man's demeanor in this video..
It alone and by itself truly makes me feel a need to be suspicious of mom, strictly because the father seems to be consumed with this awkward, negative, suspicious demeanor of the mother!!..
I just now while typing this post went back and took another look, focusing on dad's obvious suspicion of mom whom he stands by her side as she literally bellows at times during the interview.. This father feels nothing for this woman's "bellowing" IMO.. Even if her pain and sadness are infact genuine, authentic, and she has no knowledge of whats happened to Lisa.. IMO at this point regardless even if all that is true.. IMO Jeremy does not for one second believe her claims, her cries, her shaking and bellowing in supposed emotion of her daughter being gone!! IMO Jeremy for whatever reasons "seems" to be displaying a demeanor that suggests great suspicion, uneasiness, and distrust in his daughter's mother, Deborah.. It is literally oozing from this man that he feels something similar to what I just described..
Why that is I'm not certain..*
Is it because he was suspicious from the get-go of Deborah?
Or did he initially have not a clue of what happened and certainly not a clue his fiancé was in anyway involved?? IMO I believe for this issue that's what I'm leaning more towards is that he was literally ambushed with this, not a clue of what he was walking into that early morning after his overnight shift.. That he initially in no way suspected Deborah!!
We now know in the early hours of the investigation that LE immediately used the divide&conquer technique(as was described by them both in a more recent interview).. LE immediately had them separated and alone and began to hammer away seeing what they could get to with some heavy handed accusing of each of them as they were separated and all alone in different areas of the police station.. As we also now know according to mom she was told outright that she murdered her baby and they knew it and telling her to give up the locale of baby Lisa's remains because they already knew it was she who'd murderered her baby.. We also know that somehow she also ended up actually hooked to a LDT machine that the end result was supposedly "failed miserably"..*
We do not however hear about any of these type tactics being used on Jeremy and infact he asked to take a LDT and LE refused stating it was NOT NECESSARY!!
I believe LE felt there to have been very good reason for seeming *to have polar opposite tactics with each parent in those first hours.. I think it's quite possible that LE for reasons unbeknownst to us at this time began to believe that the mother was lying, with holding info, and not being forthcoming with the truth.. Maybe not even specifically lying and deceiving about Lisa but that due to Deb's answers, responses, actions, and reactions along with possibly evidence coming to light showing her to have been deceitful amd lying about very relevant and important issues such as cheating and that there infact was a whole other individual that no one even knew existed and would need to be evaluated as a possible suspect.. That IMO would be more than enough for LE to have become extremely suspicious of mom and what she had done, and how and/or if this person whom she was hiding.. How did he perhaps play into what all had taken place?? By the time of the LDT this was being bandied about as a possibility(mom having an UNidentified boyfriend in the picture).. And I think it's likely this was possibly heavily hit on in the LDT to give LE a better idea if this could infact be true..
That of course IMO in and of itself would be more than enough to cause Deb to miserably fail the LDT if she was lying about the relationship..
So with all of that said IMO it's very likely that poor dad who hasn't a clue of what in the he!! He has come home to in this nightmare and the only thing he knew at that time was that his baby girl was gone.. I believe it's quite possible that once LE had found some way of confirming this other man that they decided to very much use this lying and deceiving that Deb was doing to Jeremy in her cheating.. I believe they began to use that to their benefit by possibly opening Jeremy's eyes to ALL or atleast some of what had been occurring behind his back with his fiancé and another man..
When LE let atleast part of this cat out of the bag with Jeremy to see where that would then lead them.. It's at this point that I think likely that Jeremy was learning with certainty for the very first time that Deb had infact been cheating behind his back.. I think he may have suspected leading up to this but that definitely when LE let him in on all or some of Debs extracurricular activities it was the first time that he knew it to be true with any degree of certainty..jmo..
IMOO I believe something similar to the ^above^ scenario could likely have been how the first part of this case played out.. I also think LE may direct Jeremy to not "call out" Deb on the cheating, but rather to attempt to be supportive, and play dumb to see what that leads them to.. There could be hundreds of different ways in which LE are choosing to go about this case, specifically if they were to have found about these lies of Deb.. They would be carefully choosing how to go about using such info to their advantage in helping to find out exactly who is involved and what has happened to baby Lisa..
This IMO would definitely make perfect sense for why we are seeing these obvious tell-tale signs of suspicion that Jeremy certainly seems to have of Deb.. My God if it is something similar can you just imagine how excruciatingly difficult this is for this poor guy to be acting the supportive fiancé, *believing her bs.. All to find out what's happened to his baby girl.. When what he really wants to do is confront this person he likely feels is a total stranger to him and that he is seething with anger and resentment toward.. Can you imagine how difficult they'd be for this dad??
Of course it goes without saying(but I'll say it just to CMA in case someone wants to twist that I'm stating any of this as any sort of fact).. This is all just discussing possible theories based on what little we know and combining it with the very obvious in demeanor suspicions that Jeremy seems to have about Deb.. Not staing any of these as fact.. As we clearly do not know if there is a cheating boyfriend that LE has uncovered from Deb's attempting to have hid.. IT IS ALL BEING DISCUSSED IN THEORY AS POSSIBILITIES OF WHAT MAY OR MAY NOT HAVE OCCURRED!!!
All in all nothing more than jmo, tho!!!