Did Lisa's Mom do it? Poll

[keeponsearching]

I wonder if we have not seen them, or heard them talk again because it was turning into more about them then Lisa. I am hoping that is the case, that they will sit back, and let LE do the job. Lisa is in the media, we know she is missing, we also know she is wanted back home.

 

[Mountain_Kat]

I've never been on the fence, but I will say that I'd like this "handy man" business cleared up.

 

[miabellamoure]

They turned away Baby Chris's Dad who knows what they have been going through, he is a retired Cop. He could be very useful.

The fact that they turned away someone who wants to help find Lisa just sealed it for me, along with the "Abduction" story.

At this point, I would not turn anyone away....

Its possible BS was the motivator in turning away Baby Chris's Dad (x-cop)...too many cooks/x-cops in the kitchen might take away from BS's limelight.

 

[joyless]

You don't turn away help.....even if it is just a person who has been through what u r experiencing and can give some non professional advice....comfort....but these parents are afraid he willook them in the eyes and see the truth....MOO. ONLY MY OPINIONS...

 

[Mountain_Kat]

You don't turn away help.....even if it is just a person who has been through what u r experiencing and can give some non professional advice....comfort....but these parents are afraid he willook them in the eyes and see the truth....MOO. ONLY MY OPINIONS...

OR, maybe the simply don't know this man from Adam.

 

[Aedrys]

I don't what to think, and after today, I'm even more confused! There's points on each sides to consider, but I am just lost. That's why I voted that I just don't know. It's so weird. I've never been so lost in a case before. I'm just not sure what happened here. I hope the family isn't getting bad advice on how to handle this case with the media, though. I hope this is the last day things are so bizarre, but who knows! I hope LE and the FBI find Lisa soon. This is fast becoming a three ring circus!

 

[Dewey2Me1MoThyme]

I have leaned more toward the parents aren't involved, however I do get the impression JI has doubts about the story. That could be b/c of all the high profile cases we have seen in the news. Maybe he wants to believe her but statistically he has to wonder.
I think trying to make every thing we glean fit the case may be overshadowing what we don't know. For example, the shopping trip may be perfectly innocent, yet we try to make it a reason or contributing factor. Same goes for the dog. We don't know this particular dog in question, nor the real perp, but we try to fit the dogs not barking into the picture b/c maybe our dogs would bark.
JMHO!

 

[wonders]

Just starting to follow this missing baby Lisa case.
I voted not sure, on the fence.
My first and foremost thought is that I hope Baby Lisa is found safe and sound.
Talk about shades of cases past (Caylee) and present (Haleigh).
Back In the Susan Smith case. When she was on tv begging for the return of her boys I knew something was way off about her as she didn't look anybody or anything in the face. But I'm not getting that same feeling with Baby Lisa's mother. As I said I'm just beginning to follow this case and I am wondering if I'm off. KWIM? Just please don't let it turn into a Caylee thing or a still missing Haleigh thing. I just don't think my heart could take another shatter. Maybe I shouldn't follow this case but know that I wont be able to stay away from it now. Please let Lisa be found safe and sound, PLEASE.

 

[iamnotagolem]

Question:

Do you think people are more suspicious of DB of having an affair than JI b/c she's still married to someone other than the man she's living with?

Do you think the missing cell phones gives merit to the question of an affair?

Just curious, b/c we have 0 information that lends to either of them having an affair, yet there are theories suggesting one of them may have.

 

[marge_rita]

They turned away Baby Chris's Dad who knows what they have been going through, he is a retired Cop. He could be very useful.

The fact that they turned away someone who wants to help find Lisa just sealed it for me, along with the "Abduction" story. At this point, I would not turn anyone away....

bbm
great point

 

[dunlurken]

I think the Mom is guilty of doing something. Don't know what yet. The fact that she was out with her brother buying a box of wine stinks to high heaven for me.

The only other option is that Lisa was sold. Don't want to go there, but if that's the case, what can I say. The dad looks like he's in total shock. No way, no how did someone come in through a window and steal the child.

Something is very amiss here.

 

[Dewey2Me1MoThyme]

I think the Mom is guilty of doing something. Don't know what yet. The fact that she was out with her brother buying a box of wine stinks to high heaven for me.

The only other option is that Lisa was sold. Don't want to go there, but if that's the case, what can I say. The dad looks like he's in total shock. No way, no how did someone come in through a window and steal the child.

Something is very amiss here.

BBM To assume buying wine prior to Lisa going missing is suspect, is to assume she knew Lisa would go missing prior to the event. :twocents:

 

[TorisMom003]

Question:

Do you think people are more suspicious of DB of having an affair than JI b/c she's still married to someone other than the man she's living with?

Do you think the missing cell phones gives merit to the question of an affair?

Just curious, b/c we have 0 information that lends to either of them having an affair, yet there are theories suggesting one of them may have.

BBM

Per the bolded part, JI is living with a married woman. That shoe fits on both of their feet. He is as guilty of having an affair with a married woman as she is of having an affair while married to another man. I do get the feeling that this is overlooked quite often when talking about mom and dad in this case.

MOO

 

[Whisperer]

I have leaned more toward the parents aren't involved, however I do get the impression JI has doubts about the story. That could be b/c of all the high profile cases we have seen in the news. Maybe he wants to believe her but statistically he has to wonder.
I think trying to make every thing we glean fit the case may be overshadowing what we don't know. For example, the shopping trip may be perfectly innocent, yet we try to make it a reason or contributing factor. Same goes for the dog. We don't know this particular dog in question, nor the real perp, but we try to fit the dogs not barking into the picture b/c maybe our dogs would bark.
JMHO!

Oh, dogs will bark. That is one reason she should have had the dog inside. Once a dog matures and is part of the family, they will warn/protect the family of any stranger and sometimes friends/family members dropping by.

 

[Whisperer]

She is alone for the first time at night while her BF/husband is going to be gone most of the night. She is alone with a baby and two young children and doesn't think to lock the door???

Come on now..

At the very least we are looking at poor judgement and as a parent, she is not looking good about protecting the children and the home. This omission doesn't sit well with me. I am betting we will find some very interesting characteristics concerning the mother before this is over.

 

[Dewey2Me1MoThyme]

Oh, dogs will bark. That is one reason she should have had the dog inside. Once a dog matures and is part of the family, they will warn/protect the family of any stranger and sometimes friends/family members dropping by.

I have 3 that would bark, but have had a full grown Husky / collie mix that would let anyone walk into the house w/o a peep. Are we to assume the perp was a "stranger" and not extended family or neighbour the dog knows?

 

[Dewey2Me1MoThyme]

She is alone for the first time at night while her BF/husband is going to be gone most of the night. She is alone with a baby and two young children and doesn't think to lock the door???

Come on now..

At the very least we are looking at poor judgement and as a parent, she is not looking good about protecting the children and the home. This omission doesn't sit well with me. I am betting we will find some very interesting characteristics concerning the mother before this is over.

Do we know she didn't lock the door? Having rekeyed and master keyed many locks in the past I can tell you that some locks will automatically unlock when turned from the inside. If the perp came in through the window as claimed, he could have left by the door, thus possibly leaving it unlocked by simply turning the knob. Did she state she never locked the door, or that she thought she had?

 

[Codger]

Do we know she didn't lock the door? Having rekeyed and master keyed many locks in the past I can tell you that some locks will automatically unlock when turned from the inside. If the perp came in through the window as claimed, he could have left by the door, thus possibly leaving it unlocked by simply turning the knob. Did she state she never locked the door, or that she thought she had?

We don't know because even she wasn't sure - IIRC - JI said he found the door unlocked when he came home, which led to DB saying she must have forgotten to lock it, but that she usually did lock it. I never saw where there was anything definite stating she left it unlocked, just assumptions, because JI supposedly found it that way. jmo of course.

 

[LadyPirate]

Yesterday, I wasn't sure....Today, I am leaning more towards the child being taken by someone they knew and I think they both witnessed, or at least the mother witnessed, who took the child. I think the boys saw it, hence their screaming, and the fact that they haven't been seen since that time.

As I said on another thread here, this would account for the statement, "They took our cell phones so we couldn't call 911". They know who did it, and they know why they did it.

I have no idea if they would have shared that info with LE, though why they wouldn't is beyond me, because, after all, someone took their child. Right now, I am thinking that LE probably does know, or at least have some major clues as to who took her. They're just being very tight lipped until they get the info they need and go through the proper channels and have all their ducks in a row before releasing the information or making an arrest.

 

[LadyPirate]

Also, it could be that Lisa is still alive, and that LE CAN'T release any information for fear of them doing something to her. They may know exactly who has her, but can't tip their hand until they have her safely out of the situation.