But by "taking it back" they are perpetuating the word's accessability. White kids listen to rap and are undoubtedly learning the word and using it to describe a close friend (for example, "Yeah, he's my





"), but because they are white it is perceived to have racial undertones.
I think the best way to dismantle the use and meaning of the word is to encourage EVERYONE of EVERY race to stop using it (blacks included), and if it is used, to not get so angry about it. The media places so much emphasis on the use of this word that they are actually strengthening the meaning, and are even going so far as instigating trouble where there is none, as shown during the whole Don Imus fiasco. Do you think any of these 20 year old Rutger's girls even listened to Don Imus' radio show? Absolutely not! But someone had to point it out to them, and how they should be hurt, and then suddenly you hear disingenuous recantations of how "devastated" they were and how the "healing process" has begun. Give me a break.
The other drawback to the media's attention of the word is that they give unequal weight to it. I fail to see how using the "N" word is quantitatively more racist than a non-white person calling someone "white trash." In my book, it's just as racist. So why doesn't the media report in the news every time a non-white person racially slams a white person in this manner? And if they did, why aren't the ramifications or consequences just as severe such as losing a job or sponsorship?
Now, when I say that we should stop using the word, I don't mean to say we should ban it. Banning a word would set a terrible precedence, and I'm sure most people who have read "1984" can see what I'm getting at.