Quite true and I wonder how her daughter feels about this?You don't offend me. I'm 52 and will be 64 when the youngest grandchild I'm raising turns 18, and I'm just hoping that I live even that long. It's so much harder now than when I was young and I think that woman is nuts to be doing such a thing. Her daughter will probably end up raising the children because she could be pushing up daisies before the kids are grown.