Alisa's mother is a good friend of mine - I have known her and her husband for nearly 50 years. Her mother just updated friends to remind us that there is A LOT of false information floating around. Alisa DID NOT go to her husband's house - she was petrified of him and would never go near him. He DID NOT have sole custody of the children. Alisa traveled to Pennsylvania last week to see her grandmother - who she had not seen in 5 years. Her mother didn't say so but it is likely that, while Alisa was fearful for her own safety, she did not feel that her husband was a threat to their children. Alisa's parents flew to Florida this afternoon and are waiting for news and praying for a positive outcome.