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I totally agree with both these points. As I read it, his biggest problem has been diminished parenting. And if he does have intermittent explosive disorder, which is very real and can be scary to deal with, then why the hello was his parent (who apparently wanted ALL the parenting responsibility and decisions to herself) allowing the routine laxity in his supervision and environment?
I'd very seriously love to know what his consequences were when he misbehaved at home. Was there ANY parenting going on in that home other than chemical control through medication both day and night?
It is my feeling that children in both (co-mingled) families struggled. Divorces, changes of residence, nasty parenting (as indicated by the oldest stepbrother of Anna running away from his “new home”.) Plus, overcrowding. Plus, continuing custodial processing between SH and her ex. Each kid’s needs were probably not met, but least of all, Anna’s, because her mother was out of picture.