impatientredhead
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I respectfully don't agree with that CL. Yes, they do know the difference. They may have self esteem issues but I find most victims who have been abused themselves become very overprotective of their children........not idly sitting by under-protecting while their children are beaten or murdered.
To suffer abuse oneself is one thing and not do anything to stop it but to allow it to happen to the very children you are to protect is nothing short of unforgivable.
Imo there has never been a child born or a woman/man that didn't know they were suffering from abuse unless they were mentally challenged in some capacity. They know, that is why it takes them years to overcome it if they ever do.
imo
Children that are abused absolutely know they are being abused. They are made to be part of covering up their own abuse, hiding the bruises, repeating the lies, pretending everything is okay. They know and then are further abused by being put in a the role of protector of the abuser. It takes years to unravel those conflicted feelings.