I dont think you missed it....what I found in the docs she only referenced it as the 'plan' she made with SS. her family (gm) claims she didnt know about him coming there. the roommate had no idea he was there, heck, she claims she didnt even know Madeline was there that nite because she was supposedly asleep when she came home. (I struggle with her not knowing...she's sound asleep at 8:30-8:45pm?) and she made a point she sleeps with the tv on LOUD. interesting add-on.
judging from SS mother saying she had something to give her and KNOWING in advance (a week or two) he was going there sunday....dad claims he didnt know that far in advance, he said he only knew he was leaving sunday. SS mother mentions the call and assumes it was Madeline. she didnt speak with Madeline. SS father claims that saturday, SS was freaked out.
but as far as JS telling Madeline he was coming IMO it could have been friday or saturday while at gm's because saturday she was in tears and didnt want to go home and spent the day with her grandfather.
no mention at all that JS spent time with Madeline on her actual birthday.
subpoena interview: she never says WHEN she actually told Madeline he was coming there and she wasnt specifically asked that question:
WJ: Okay. Alright. Now, Madeline, does she lay out her clothes for school the next day, or is that something she gets in the morning, makes a game-time decision like my kid?
JS: (Quick Sigh) Typically It is a game-time decision, morning of.
WJ: Okay, what about this specific evening, do you remember anything about it?
JS: Yes. This evening we had, um, I had already discussed PRIOR to Stephan coming to visit that he was going to help me take Maddie to school that day. Um, so because I knew that that was what was going to happen that night, I had asked Maddie to pick out your clothes, have everything ready, have your backpack ready, your water bottle, everything you need ready, so that way you could just grab your stuff and head out. It won’t be too much--too much of a hassle in the morning. Um, and so she did. She picked out her clothing. I asked her what she was wearing, and she told me what she had picked out. I said, “Okay, fine.” <---no specific timeframe for this exchange and basically the discussion was with SS, not Madeline.
so when was PRIOR? IMO, Madeline was blindsided on saturday. in that interview, JS never saw the clothes she picked out. she was 'told by Madeline'. IMO, contact by JS with Madeline was all by phone leading up to Madeline being taken to her party and returned home. of course, Im confident LE has all of the phone communication times for all of them.
I cannot understand why gm didnt disclose to LE WHY Madeline was upset on saturday. surely, she asked her?