And what you seem to be missing is MD had no authority to see that she "took her lumps"The way I see it, if a person decides to live their life on the wrong side of the law, they risk something like this happening. Just like if you ignore traffic laws, it might not end up well for you. MM broke two laws in the span of a few minutes, one of which was probably a felony. Thats the chance he took and I really have very little sympathy for him. You talk about privilege yet you seem to ignore the fact that MM used his size to solve his problems. He slammed a man to the ground because his idiot of a wife wouldn't take her lumps and move to a space that she was actually entitled to be in. Quit making excuses for people that break the law, but I see you're an attorney, thats just what you do.
I would have diffused the situation. "Whats going on here?" "Sorry, I didn't notice the spot was handicapped." "Won't happen again." "Thanks for pointing it out".What would you do?
if you see something, say something. that's all md did. he stood up for the rights of the handicapped.
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Seriously? This was at a convenience store. The guy is going to be gone in a couple of minutes. What good would calling the cops do?And what you seem to be missing is MD had no authority to see that she "took her lumps"
What right did he think he had that he could approach and she would obey him?
I know the response will be the right of every citizen to call out wrong doing but IMO this is why we have LE so we don't have these public displays of people brawling with each other. IMO
But whether you agree with what he did or not (you don't), the fact remains that he did nothing wrong. Nothing.I appreciate that sentiment but it can be very dangerous to confront someone directly (obviously there are exceptions like during an active shooting sometimes confrontation can be heroic). I don't think the campaign is about saying something to that person, but rather reporting it to law enforcement and other appropriate authorities.
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There were several news stories that said multiple people went in to tell the store clerks about the incident, rather than risk confronting anyone directly. I do think that if MD was acting crazy and threatening that most people would ignore it to protect themselves and report it to an authority. And that's what reportedly happened. If they had confronted him directly they could also be buried in the ground right now.I would have diffused the situation. "Whats going on here?" "Sorry, I didn't notice the spot was handicapped." "Won't happen again." "Thanks for pointing it out".
But whatever, you can't even admit that MM overreacted and used violence instead of using words. When MM came out of that store MD was at least 3 feet from the car and his girlfriend was safely inside. There was absolutely no threat.
And in that video you see several people coming and going from the store, and none made more than a casual glance at the incident. You think if MD was being "crazy" and "threatening" to a woman with children, that none of those people would step in? But, no. Nobody even stops to see whats going on. Nobody comes out of the store to see whats happening. No there isn't audio on the tape, but there are many things that give you a pretty good idea of what is happening.
Well we see the result of not calling LE. In your opinion would calling LE had a better end result?Seriously? This was at a convenience store. The guy is going to be gone in a couple of minutes. What good would calling the cops do?
And so was MM going to be gone in a couple of minutes, the car was idling.Seriously? This was at a convenience store. The guy is going to be gone in a couple of minutes. What good would calling the cops do?
oh high and mighty, you who sit in high judgment from afar and deem what is "appropriate" and what isn't!
if I was knocked to the ground with no warning where my feet left the ground and landed on hard concrete pavement, I would defend myself, especially if the assailant kept on advancing on me, looking like he would swing. no matter the color.
Yes people sometimes mistakenly break laws. Parking in a handicapped space, I can forgive that. Pummelling someone half your size to the ground is inexcusable.This is just so amazing.
a) Every one has broken a law at one point in time. It's illegal not to smile in public in my hometown. Better lock me up! So this holier than thou sanctimonious attitude needs to just stop.
b) I've worked with people with disabilities for my entire working life, and have close family members who have disabilities. I see all this "support" now, but it's noticeably absent in the real world.
c) This isn't over a handicapped parking spot. It's about power. Parking lot vigilante obviously feels a lack of power in his daily life and therefore seeks to attain it in other ways, like patrolling handicap spots.
I encourage people to google and find your local ARC agency or other agency which works with people with disabilities. Volunteer, attend an event, walk the walk every day.
People with disabilities need the community's support every day, not just lip service as a token project because it supports one's opinion of the legal murder aka SYG laws.
Take a photo and send to local law enforcement.And so was MM going to be gone in a couple of minutes, the car was idling.
So it's not about the parking spot.Yes people sometimes mistakenly break laws. Parking in a handicapped space, I can forgive that. Pummelling someone half your size to the ground is inexcusable.
What good does yelling at strangers do? It starts a confrontation that can lead to violence.Seriously? This was at a convenience store. The guy is going to be gone in a couple of minutes. What good would calling the cops do?
In my opinion he did something very wrong, the ultimate wrong. He escalated non-deadly force to deadly force and took a life of a man in front of his children and girlfriend without justification.But whether you agree with what he did or not (you don't), the fact remains that he did nothing wrong. Nothing.
Pummelling?Yes people sometimes mistakenly break laws. Parking in a handicapped space, I can forgive that. Pummelling someone half your size to the ground is inexcusable.
Ive said that from the beginning. MMs decision to pummel MD is what caused his death. Violence is never an acceptable option with the exception of defending yourself. And I know that you are going to say MM was defending his wife, but there was never any threat to her, her getting out of the car is proof of that.So it's not about the parking spot.
Again, pummel means to repeatedly strike with the fists.Ive said that from the beginning. MMs decision to pummel MD is what caused his death. Violence is never an acceptable option with the exception of defending yourself. And I know that you are going to say MM was defending his wife, but there was never any threat to her, her getting out of the car is proof of that.
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